Comments on: For my FetLife Friend.

By: bailey

bailey — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 17:08:04 +0000

Amen!
As one who is now in North Carolina instead of Virgina.

Having a good education and good job prospects makes this easy for me.

“Love yourself better.” and do the things necessary to do it well.

–bailey

By: mollena

mollena — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 08:33:06 +0000

Amazing, ~m.

You have such a tough job. Your lifemate is himself suffering. know some of the horrible pitchblack path down which he is walking. I can only imagine what parts of you are SO screaming to help, to try to hope he comes to his senses.

As a sober alcoholic, I applaud your capacity to stand against his addiction in a way he, at present, cannot.

Perhaps he will learn and veer from this one-way highway to oblivion.

I’m and struck by your strength.

It AS TOUGH to stay with an active addict than it is to leave an active addict. But staying makes you both victims, and leaving leaves him the choice to de-victimize.

Me? I cannot think of a better choice than the one you have made.

Respect,

~Mo

By: ~m

~m — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 08:15:38 +0000

Molena,
Man you know how to smack a girl upside the head! i’m struggling to stay strong after asking my Husband/Master of 20 years to leave because He is in big, messy, dangerous relapse. my huevos aren’t brass, but they are keeping me strong for today.
another of your fetlife friends,
~m

By: ~c

~c — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:44:53 +0000

Bravo!!! Wonderful Post!

By: shortcake

shortcake — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:37:37 +0000

AWWWWW Molena thank you, you know this was the hardest thing to do in my life and i accomplished it in less then 7 days of the relationship! thank you for believing in me! your a great friend i am flattered by what you wrote, i too hope it reaches another soul, and makes them see the beauty of strength that Lie’s with in each of our hearts and minds, for we are strong women and need to do what is right for our selves and like me a very young child!
thank you lady hugs! shortcake