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By: dharma

dharma — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 23:51:54 +0000

Oh my I have all sorts of thoughts of if I were single or poly what would happen when I travel next to the left coast…

By: Mollena

Mollena — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 06:15:46 +0000

, Mister Smartiepants! Yes, safeword, as Pubic lice, Scabies, Herpes and HPV are readily transmitted even with correct condom use.

And on THOSE, I’ll pass!!

xoxo

Love

By: Andrew

Andrew — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 06:03:30 +0000

Of course I would insist on condoms – that the house rule at the Citadel as well, so if I didn’t the DM would. Are there risks that would not be moderated to acceptable levels by a layer of latex?

I didn’t actually see a safeword in your reply. Hmmm?

By: mollena

mollena — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 02:38:08 +0000

Hey Mister Andrew!

I wish such things weren’t so risky to the health of my nether bittles, because it sounds so hot…

xoxo

By: Decadence, Debauchment & Doin’ it Dry. at The Perverted Negress

Decadence, Debauchment & Doin’ it Dry. at The Perverted Negress — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 02:02:26 +0000

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By: Andrew

Andrew — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 20:24:11 +0000

“Do a scene in a public dungeon where sexual intercourse is involved”

Funny you should mention that. I hear that now that the Power Exchange is closed, the Citadel is getting some of the crowd that used to go there. In particular you are likely to get your scene kibitzed by a guided tour group complete with translator. I was thinking that if that happened the next time we play there I would really like to blindfold you, tie you in some suitably vulnerable position and invite them to take it in turns fucking you.

Your safeword is “red”. Use it now if you want to, ‘cos I think it might be hard to stop that scene once it got started.

By: Mollena

Mollena — Thu, 25 Dec 2008 04:04:10 +0000

Hellz yeah. I’m nested as a motherfucker!!!

By: LilSally

LilSally — Thu, 25 Dec 2008 03:59:54 +0000

test

By: mollena

mollena — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 04:54:23 +0000

The few times I HAVE seen fucking at pansexual parties (there is only one party group I know of that throws het-only bashes, and I’ve not attended one, so I can’t speak to that) it is most often queer couples dong the fucking.

I think there is a sort of “no kink at the sex party” and “no sex at the kink party” vibe. I have noticed that the kink-positive sex parties have very little play. Mostly fucking. And we know about the state of fuckosity at BDSM parties. Might be worth its own whole post…

…but I’d be sure to never get a date again, because I would have to talk about the “Middle age male ED factor” that is, methinks, the big culprit here.

Yay! MOAR controversy!

By: Belle Z Bub

Belle Z Bub — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 21:46:25 +0000

I’m just always amazed and amused by the “no-fucking-allowed-in-the-dungeon” ethos in the bay area heterosexual bdsm community. It seems to be one of those unwritten rules that you dare not cross.