Comments on: And that’s a wrap. http://www.mollena.com/2009/03/and-thats-a-wrap/ it ain't just the hair that's kinky Wed, 08 Feb 2012 02:41:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: mollena http://www.mollena.com/2009/03/and-thats-a-wrap/comment-page-1/#comment-5591 mollena Fri, 03 Apr 2009 02:44:55 +0000 http://www.mollena.com/?p=2526#comment-5591 :-D xoxo Mo :-D

xoxo

Mo

]]> By: mollena http://www.mollena.com/2009/03/and-thats-a-wrap/comment-page-1/#comment-5574 mollena Thu, 02 Apr 2009 05:45:23 +0000 http://www.mollena.com/?p=2526#comment-5574 Hi there! You are absolutely right 9,999 time out of 10K, I'd be likely to take out anyone hubristic enough to do that shit to me. But i have had rather stunning fortune in my life thus far. And this particular fortune revolves around the fact that the people who have treated me in that way have been absolutely on target with their assumptions. The first person who ever pulled that shit on me, when I later asked him what the fuck he through he was ding, just grinned and said he just has instinct on it. I asked him if the instinct had ever been wrong, or landed him in jail. He thought a while, and said he could recall one instance where the object of his brutal advances gave him The Look and he immediately backed off. A delicate dance. To say the least. (for more on that rogue, you can read this http://www.mollena.com/2008/12/the-perverted-negress-origins/ and this http://www.mollena.com/2009/01/origins-part-ii-caught/ ...and as to conversations on this topic...I'm always down! Thank you for stopping in! Peace ~Mo Hi there!

You are absolutely right 9,999 time out of 10K, I’d be likely to take out anyone hubristic enough to do that shit to me. But i have had rather stunning fortune in my life thus far. And this particular fortune revolves around the fact that the people who have treated me in that way have been absolutely on target with their assumptions.

The first person who ever pulled that shit on me, when I later asked him what the fuck he through he was ding, just grinned and said he just has instinct on it. I asked him if the instinct had ever been wrong, or landed him in jail. He thought a while, and said he could recall one instance where the object of his brutal advances gave him The Look and he immediately backed off.

A delicate dance. To say the least.

(for more on that rogue, you can read this

http://www.mollena.com/2008/12/the-perverted-negress-origins/

and this
http://www.mollena.com/2009/01/origins-part-ii-caught/

…and as to conversations on this topic…I’m always down!

Thank you for stopping in!

Peace

~Mo

]]> By: mollena http://www.mollena.com/2009/03/and-thats-a-wrap/comment-page-1/#comment-5572 mollena Thu, 02 Apr 2009 05:29:00 +0000 http://www.mollena.com/?p=2526#comment-5572 People create a great many obstacles for themselves in their heads, don't they? If more people realized how attractive lust made them, there would be many happier humans on this rocky watery planet. xoxo Love Mo People create a great many obstacles for themselves in their heads, don’t they?

If more people realized how attractive lust made them, there would be many happier humans on this rocky watery planet.

xoxo

Love

Mo

]]> By: Freakbear http://www.mollena.com/2009/03/and-thats-a-wrap/comment-page-1/#comment-5569 Freakbear Wed, 01 Apr 2009 06:19:39 +0000 http://www.mollena.com/?p=2526#comment-5569 As someone that has thoughts on this... ;) it can be very difficult at times. I was just talking about this again with another friend, and discussing how there are some people in the scene that will come up and meet someone for the first time and then grab a handful of hair... (Sometimes referred to as a Portland Negotiation) That will never be me. well... ok.. .maybe once or twice... I have heard enough submissive/bottoms comment/rant about how presumptuous this person or that person was, and who do they think they (the sub) is to be handled that way, and ask before you touch, etc. etc. etc. I will admit that I can be a play slut. I can play with pretty much anyone, female, male, sub, slave, bottom, switch etc, and have fun... but these people are very much so periphery individuals. However if there is someone specific that catches my eye and my brain, then they are someone that I am not going to be potentially indifferent if there is an ongoing element to things. If I am asking someone to play it means that I am hoping that (depending on the overall situation) there will be lots of play... so as a result, I do not want to approach someone full of Domly Do-Right-ness and have them be the type of person that needs to go through the six degrees of separation and check references and run a DNA scan and and and... BUT... Then there is always that case that you might run into that beautiful, curvaceous, creature that gets creamy at being grabbed by the hair, pressed into a wall... and whispered into their ear that before you are done with them they are going to be a puddle of slobbering, whimpering girlmeat at my boots... and instead you just start chatting them up and behind the smile and cordial conversation they are thinking NOPE.....NEXT! But on a rare occasion, after careful donut bribery, you can find a way to split it down the middle and it is a WIN! You are a super, wonderful, approachable woman, and I look forward to that next time you are in proximity... >:) -Michael As someone that has thoughts on this… ;) it can be very difficult at times. I was just talking about this again with another friend, and discussing how there are some people in the scene that will come up and meet someone for the first time and then grab a handful of hair… (Sometimes referred to as a Portland Negotiation)

That will never be me. well… ok.. .maybe once or twice… I have heard enough submissive/bottoms comment/rant about how presumptuous this person or that person was, and who do they think they (the sub) is to be handled that way, and ask before you touch, etc. etc. etc.

I will admit that I can be a play slut. I can play with pretty much anyone, female, male, sub, slave, bottom, switch etc, and have fun… but these people are very much so periphery individuals.

However if there is someone specific that catches my eye and my brain, then they are someone that I am not going to be potentially indifferent if there is an ongoing element to things. If I am asking someone to play it means that I am hoping that (depending on the overall situation) there will be lots of play… so as a result, I do not want to approach someone full of Domly Do-Right-ness and have them be the type of person that needs to go through the six degrees of separation and check references and run a DNA scan and and and…

BUT…

Then there is always that case that you might run into that beautiful, curvaceous, creature that gets creamy at being grabbed by the hair, pressed into a wall… and whispered into their ear that before you are done with them they are going to be a puddle of slobbering, whimpering girlmeat at my boots…

and instead you just start chatting them up and behind the smile and cordial conversation they are thinking NOPE…..NEXT!

But on a rare occasion, after careful donut bribery, you can find a way to split it down the middle and it is a WIN!

You are a super, wonderful, approachable woman, and I look forward to that next time you are in proximity… >:)

-Michael

]]> By: Casey http://www.mollena.com/2009/03/and-thats-a-wrap/comment-page-1/#comment-5571 Casey Wed, 01 Apr 2009 00:19:48 +0000 http://www.mollena.com/?p=2526#comment-5571 I'm a switch, and I find that it's really hard to approach people, top or bottom, period. I've done pick-up play and casual stuff and volunteered as a demo bottom for people I barely knew because I wanted attention, and sometimes it was good and sometimes... not so much... but I always learned a lot. But yeah, it's hard to go back to my room alone, and it's even harder to wander around a play space watching people play and feeling alone. I'm not ever likely to walk up to someone and just grab them by the throat unless I'm pretty damn sure they're not going to reject me, and probably wouldn't respond well to being on the receiving end of that approach from someone I wasn't already playing with either... not a judgement, just a comment on my own insecurities. I'm usually up for a good conversation, though. I'd love to have one with you sometime. I’m a switch, and I find that it’s really hard to approach people, top or bottom, period. I’ve done pick-up play and casual stuff and volunteered as a demo bottom for people I barely knew because I wanted attention, and sometimes it was good and sometimes… not so much… but I always learned a lot. But yeah, it’s hard to go back to my room alone, and it’s even harder to wander around a play space watching people play and feeling alone.

I’m not ever likely to walk up to someone and just grab them by the throat unless I’m pretty damn sure they’re not going to reject me, and probably wouldn’t respond well to being on the receiving end of that approach from someone I wasn’t already playing with either… not a judgement, just a comment on my own insecurities. I’m usually up for a good conversation, though. I’d love to have one with you sometime.

]]> By: Kat http://www.mollena.com/2009/03/and-thats-a-wrap/comment-page-1/#comment-5566 Kat Tue, 31 Mar 2009 23:36:31 +0000 http://www.mollena.com/?p=2526#comment-5566 Thanks for sharing. I have to say that I envy you. If I could find a job in the city I loved (San Francisco but hell, even here cuz I love the mountains) and that saw my personality type as an asset rather than a reputation/PR/nonconformity issue...I would be happy. Im lying if I said tht I did not envy that about you. People think that about me when I go to the fan-based conventions (non-BDSM) I go to. I go and I have alot of fun. In my case, I have the opposite. Since I do have a boyfriend, some people have not approached me. Either it is because they think that Im unreachable, unavailable or they dont realize that Stego and I are not in the traditional relationship type. Aside from that, people think because of some mysterious factor, that Im "out of thier league". That always floors me. Thanks for sharing. I have to say that I envy you. If I could find a job in the city I loved (San Francisco but hell, even here cuz I love the mountains) and that saw my personality type as an asset rather than a reputation/PR/nonconformity issue…I would be happy. Im lying if I said tht I did not envy that about you.

People think that about me when I go to the fan-based conventions (non-BDSM) I go to. I go and I have alot of fun. In my case, I have the opposite. Since I do have a boyfriend, some people have not approached me. Either it is because they think that Im unreachable, unavailable or they dont realize that Stego and I are not in the traditional relationship type. Aside from that, people think because of some mysterious factor, that Im “out of thier league”. That always floors me.

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