Comments on: Kinkfest II: Electric Boogaloo.

By: Panthera Pardus

Panthera Pardus — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 02:28:54 +0000

*roflmmfao* Okay…I’m the dumb teen. Touche! *giggle*

By: mollena

mollena — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 16:44:25 +0000

Hey sweetie

Oh gosh if I took my own fucking advice to heart and internalized it, I’d be far, far more likely to remain in my Zen state of happy energy flow of win, huh?

I have no desire to live in that state of feeling “Less Than,” not ever. Tough to stick to core values when they feel like they betray you and leave you in emotional wastelands, trudging along alone. But you know, it ultimately IS NOT OK for me to be compromised in that way. Soul sickening, you know?

Peace.

(((HUG)))

By: Freakbear

Freakbear — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 16:09:03 +0000

I don’t think you are setting yourself up for failure. As you have said many, many times, you have to know yourself. By being honest and upfront you are letting people know who you are and what your needs are. And you needs are valid and important.

If you were not being a picky bitch, that would be setting yourself up to fail, as you would not get what you ultimately need and would throw yourself deeper and deeper into a black hole until you reached your limit…

So stop beating yourself up, and let someone else do it.

-Michael

P.s. Ali (who was in your class) loves you too

By: mollena

mollena — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 15:52:19 +0000

Girl I KNOW it is the right thing to do, to know what I need and to realize that I welcome in the energy that I project, and I can only have my needs met if I leave space for those needs. But it kinda drags. Sometimes.

http://www.overheardinnewyork.com/archives/001395.html tht is the quote from http://www.OverheardinNewYork.com that inspired that modification…..among my buddies. “Biotech” has taken over and ia a part of the lexicon!

Love

By: Panthera Pardus

Panthera Pardus — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 13:53:47 +0000

Why would anyone bother? Because you’re worth it. *shrug* Never settle. You know what you want, and you know when someone’s not going to be able to provide that for you. That’s a good thing.

Yes, it may prevent you from connecting with some people…but those are the people that wouldn’t be the ones you need anyway. _Fuck_ settling. You may be a submissive, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get what you need out of a relationship.

Basically, you rock, and you deserve a partner that’s gonna rock too. *nods*

That said, and a complete non sequitor, but on your sidebar in the ‘Cravin mo’ Mo’ section: The facebook link. I glanced at it and read it as “Facebook, Biotches!” but then realized it said Biotechs…Did your spellchecker get you? *grin*