Comments on: Sunday Sexytime Story “I thought it would be OK!”

By: Utica

Utica — Wed, 06 May 2009 14:00:02 +0000

i haven’t been in such a position myself,but for as long as i can remember i tell people to just ask me. i think it’s really unfair to assume that because we are kinky we’re just going to want anyone.
~sigh~

dumb boy’s are dumb lol.

By: caroline

caroline — Mon, 04 May 2009 15:21:46 +0000

With that voice, you could read the pizza menu and I would listen!

By: mollena

mollena — Mon, 04 May 2009 14:50:58 +0000

Indeed…but the whole situation kind of felt weirdly like a setup to me. My eventual take was that The Pizza Guy, having regaled his friends with tales of the kinky freak he was fucking had effectively set up a situation where his friend could well assume I was down for anything and lacked boundaries.
He never fully copped to it, even 3+ years later after we were dating, but he never denied it either

Peace.

Mollena

By: Jen Isis

Jen Isis — Mon, 04 May 2009 02:48:42 +0000

But pizza guy said “hey man, it’s not fucking ok”, so it sounds like he didn’t assume it was ok, right? Or it was just jason who thought it was ok?

By: Princess lilbabigirl

Princess lilbabigirl — Sun, 03 May 2009 23:56:15 +0000

this was topic of coversation between my kink folks and my aware kink but still very “vanilla” we were wondering the same thing. why do people assume that because we are kinky that we are going want/your kind.

and now thanks go you I have answer will not completely answer the question but will give us a place to jump