Mollena Williams

July 31, 2009

Perversion has a New Look!

Filed under: Real-Honest-To-Ganesha-True-Shit. — mollena @ 4:47 pm

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Thanks to Keith for the codewrangling.

Fuck…of course NOW my hyperlinks aren’t showing up as gray any more…ah, newness!

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SF’s “IRON DOM” contest is tomorrow!

iron domThe “Iron Dom” contest has been going on for a while now, and I’ve participated in it, as either a willing “victim” or a Judge.

This time I’ll be the MC…whatever the fuck that means. I assume it means I get to talk trash, and for this I am always prepared to step up to the mike.

The premise is as follows:  a  top, stranded on a desert island has only the crap with which they washed  ashore. (more…)

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Mo’s Twitter Natterings: 2009-07-31

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July 30, 2009

Mo’s Twitter Natterings: 2009-07-30

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July 29, 2009

HNT ~ Dana Lends a Hand. Or Two.

Filed under: Real-Honest-To-Ganesha-True-Shit. — mollena @ 9:01 pm

Somewhere between a multi-limbed Hindu deity and that Janet Jackson cover is me, recently having been beaten to the ground and my insanely gorgeous friend Dana, who you can’t see. But you get the point.

The preceding scene left a few bruises and marks, but not as many as the *&^%$#@& mosquitoes in Wisconsin. Damn.

I can’t say enough about how strange it is to see photos of oneself right after playing. Especially since I can safely say I was blissed out, and feeling goofy.

The weekend was quite a series of emotional roller-coasters, and this was the end of a really great day.

That is, really, for me a pretty perfect moment, that I will hold close to me for as long as I breathe.

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The (not so young) Mo on the Young & Kinky Podcast!

Filed under: Podcast — mollena @ 4:03 pm

I’m on a podcast, motherfucker!

Well ’tis no “I’m On A Boat!” but it’ll have to do for now.

Listen to

me on the Young And Kinky Podcast

 

right now, bitches!!

 

Or don’t. Its your life. You gotta do what makes you feel right, yanno?

 

Thanks Benny and Jinx!

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Mo’s Twitter Natterings: 2009-07-29

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July 28, 2009

Look Mom! Fetish Models! Can I keep ‘em?!

Filed under: Going's On. — mollena @ 3:35 pm
Miss Calico

Miss Calico

Though I am often a procrastinator, I did mean to buy a day in the NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar. I was delighted to see that my birthday was available, so that calendar purchasers will have that handy reminder in 2010.

But hey. I was feeling altruistic so I bought the One-Day-A-Month option.

I filled out my form, and sent it in.

Then I received a Twitter from The Debauched Diva directing me to two blog posts: one from Miss Calico, and one from Mina Meow.

 It seems…well. It seems I’ve rented them.

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Mo’s Twitter Natterings: 2009-07-28

Filed under: Twitter — mollena @ 1:00 am
  • My Daily Twittascope – Others may be quite certain that you are lost in space today — and they might be right. But… http://bit.ly/3JeAow #
  • Waking up assessment: the bumpy itchy bits are mosquito bites. The stripey itchy bits are whip bites. And my brain's still idling low. Good. #
  • DIP Merce Cunningham http://bit.ly/1aKyom (that's Dance in Peace.) #
  • Indeed, @CampbellX yeah. The "Executive Pervert" moniker in my discription is fo realz *grin* in reply to CampbellX #
  • LOL @CampbellX are you fucking kidding?! You and @Ajamux will be sorry you asked because shutting me up once I START talking is difficult. in reply to CampbellX #
  • @dopegirlfresh My plan to rule the world with dorkiness &perversion so that I may assume my place as Empress of the Shy Freaks gallops apace in reply to dopegirlfresh #
  • @dopegirlfresh Angel will have to join in the movement, since swoonage occurred. Sorry, but that is how it is. in reply to dopegirlfresh #
  • Looking back on the sadness I felt on Saturday and how wonderful everyone as, I am feeling SO bloody fortunate for my friends. #
  • There is a fierceness in being able to weather my feelings on their terms, reaching out in the dark and feeling the people who reach back. #
  • Settling in at Cargo Coffee in Madison, Wisconsin.I have 3 beverages, WiFi. Feeling good. #
  • ….until I realize the reason I can't login to my website is because it is down. Fuck-a-doodle-doo. #
  • RT @TheOnion Study: Abstinence-Only Lunch Programs Ineffective At Combating Teen Obesity http://bit.ly/3cOM5d #
  • Some man just stood behind me cackling. I was about to turn around and be pissy until I realized i'm wearing my bondage.com t-shirt. #
  • On the back it says "Come on by. We'll tie your little bad ass up." Fair enough, my friend. #
  • http://twitpic.com/bu24m – E-Mo. Yeah I got all teary just now thinking about how blessed I am. :-) some details in a few… #
  • New post on The Perverted Negress http://mollena.com so go read it. #
  • And I owe you truffles, @Raging_Journey1 and @Ropecast, so don't let me forget :-) #
  • FFS #WordPress are you TRYING to give me an ulcer?!?!? #
  • *&^%$ blog…OK the post is up on http://mollena.com. And I htink i should have teh foods. #
  • WIN. "Follow your heart, even if it farts in public." – http://shar.es/xOTS #
  • @kyeli Your post rocked the motherfucking mike. On the realz, yo. in reply to kyeli #
  • @Ropecast Come have a truffle then. in reply to Ropecast #
  • @Ropecast That'll up the sweet quotient! :-D in reply to Ropecast #
  • @JustTen I am insanely jealous. I, like a dork, when i met him, told him I'd whacked off to him many, many times before. in reply to JustTen #
  • @raging_journey1 :-D in reply to raging_journey1 #
  • Telling people you love them feels scary until you realize that it doesn't mater if they say it back. What matters is telling your truth. #
  • …and then it isn't even that scary if you just write it in a blog post :-p #
  • @heidianderson I had a realization not long ago that even unrequited love is to be celebrated. Fuck idealized romantic love. in reply to heidianderson #
  • http://twitpic.com/bugbo – And so @Ropecast noms a well-earned aftercare truffle. Of COURSE he took the only white one. #
  • http://twitpic.com/buk8f – And my mission is complete. @raging_journey1 has been hit with the aftercare trufle love #
  • @KellyShibari and your feed link is fine for you as well? in reply to KellyShibari #
  • http://twitpic.com/bv65u – Did the @Ropecast. I mean did @Graydancer's podcast, #Ropecast. And, of course, my present to him arrived. #
  • @raging_journey1 ((big love)) #
  • Trouble finding your reservation when checkin into the airport? Panicking is NOT the move. #
  • Not having printed your shit out isn't the move either. Having the airline rep tell you you're at the wrong airline CAN be seen as funny. #
  • @raging_journey1 Since ain't no events we gonna be at the same time, looks like I'm-a have to drag my ass back y'alls way sometime soon. ;-) in reply to raging_journey1 #
  • Holy shit. Just found out a friend from SF, who also happened to be in WI, was temporarily jailed for forgetting about a pocketknife. #
  • Tha TSA ain't nothing to fuck with, bitches. #
  • @CruelSecretary omg your avi is full of win! in reply to CruelSecretary #
  • @mindtechnica Humorless basturds. in reply to mindtechnica #
  • Re-processing some thoughts after recording a @Ropecast with my homie. This means more writing to do. Dammit. #
  • There's an excellent chance that, one day, the sun will rise and set on a "Me" who is endlessly joyous. I'd better be ready. #
  • On the puddlejumper to Denver. I never ever thought I would be kinda sad to be leaving. Fuck. I think I had a growth spurt. #
  • @mindtechnica Holy hell. in reply to mindtechnica #
  • @Catwoman69y2k Hard core, huh? Nope. Hauled her off, booked her, whole thing. in reply to Catwoman69y2k #
  • @languid I think so. But it isn't secret…just too fucking obvious. :-D in reply to languid #
  • @phillyeboni Were they EXPLOSIVE pineapple cups?? Don't be coy now! in reply to phillyeboni #
  • @ropecast its even more hilarious in light of that text ya got! RT @purplehayz RT @Minervity: Steampunk Pac-Man http://bit.ly/11pDov in reply to purplehayz #
  • Touching down in Denver. We had to fly around a storm. I saw some Freaky. Shit. From the air. #
  • First off, holy shit what the fuck are y'all growing down there on all those megafarms!?!? Also why are some crops planted in the round??? #
  • And Denver…what is up with it raining here every time I gotta layover?? #
  • And why is it that in movies, when aliens come to earth and are gendered, the female ones are usually evil and the male ones usually benign? #
  • And who the hell just ripped that toxic fart in the back of this plane and no it wasn't me. Damn. #
  • @mindtechnica Yep. Welcome to Living While Brown! in reply to mindtechnica #
  • @WantonMale @thepixiepop the lightning was really neat, I will admit! in reply to WantonMale #
  • @PapaTomLA LOL I like it! in reply to PapaTomLA #
  • LoL @thepixiepop! Move over, Starbuck: a new rainmaker's in town! in reply to thepixiepop #
  • @cordage well, they are viscious, cunning and irrestible to make humans…if I recall "The Menagerie" correctly in reply to cordage #
  • @PapaTomLA I would grow fungus and die in Seattle. in reply to PapaTomLA #
  • Evil female aliens in "Species" "MIB II" "Aliens" good male aliens, "ET'. "K-pax"…that one dude who ressurects that deer in that movie… #
  • @PapaTomLA I want to see a tornado! in reply to PapaTomLA #
  • Still on the motherfucking tarmac. Gal across from me is hella antsy. Better let us off before she decides its peanut butter jelly time. #
  • An off-line whisperer underscored the fact that the evil femme aliens are also sexy: that we're supposed to feel odd about this. #
  • I, of course, think tentacle hentai is hot. So that wrongness thing never hit me. #
  • @annie_cuts_hair The bondage.com shirt? Try following / pinging @bondage_com and…uh….yeah. I have some clout there. in reply to annie_cuts_hair #
  • OMG even the Horta was female! ROTFLMBBAO #
  • Fuck we landed in the bastard. Stephild "haul you own damn bags outta the plane's belly" terminal! SO GLAD I'm traveling light. #
  • Whew! Sprinting across the airport like…like…damn you, OJ. NOW who am I s'posed to metaphorically imitate in airports?! #
  • Uh, can someone explain tentacle hentai to @SweetSpiced? I'm too embarassed. in reply to SweetSpiced #
  • @mErocrush No ultimately you are correct. The Horta also bucks the sexy female alien trend unless you're a REAL fetishist! in reply to mErocrush #
  • Window seat next to a family with toddler-in-arms. Tweets & FBers, sacrifice a snack to Ganesha the kid makes it back alive. #
  • @mErocrush I think "universes" in which entire species have been established as friendly/hostile is a different paradigm. in reply to mErocrush #
  • @scottfotki Um. What? in reply to scottfotki #
  • On th ground @ SFO.not at all a bad flight! Thanks Ganesha for knocking the kidlet out after the initial crying jag! #
  • @xiomberg LOL :-) and I was supposed to be at an event in Denver this fall, too. Alas, I heard it had been cancelled. in reply to xiomberg #
  • @sydhappens Win, baby! :-) love that feeling. in reply to sydhappens #
  • Holy crap….JUST skidded onto the last @SFBART from SFO. Jai Ganesha. Goodness! #
  • @Evinxiamor Interesting…and though I totally get why that makes a whole lotta sense, most of the prodommes I know are switches. in reply to Evinxiamor #
  • I know I'm home….the bus is redolent with the scent of delicious Mexican. Yummmy even if one isn't hungry. #
  • That last post was gramatically ambiguous. I mean the cuisine, not the people of Mexico. #
  • Kittehs of teh Corn attack in 5…4…3… #
  • @notoriousflirt @paganlinuxgeek I survived the kitty onslaught. I only barely survived the mystery of a horrid catbox smell but a tidy pan! in reply to notoriousflirt #
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July 27, 2009

Running away to home.

Dark moods are not unknown to me. Though I have many fewer now than I did even a year ago, and by orders of magnitude fewer today than I did when I a still actively drinking myself to death. the (up?down?)side to this is that today, I am committed to turning my heart to face these moods and riding them instead of suffocating them in the sickly miasma of a sloppy drunk.

I had no reason, on the surface, to be as wracked with emotional pain as I was on Saturday night. I mean, here I was, at a kink event, among friends, having taught the most highly attended class at the event even though I’d flown in last-minute. Literally. Hit the tarmac and within 2 hours was in front of a room full of people talking about BDSM, sharing my thoughts, listening to theirs, gloriously supported by my wonderful friends.  I’d even been asked by two kick-ass kids who run the Young & Kinky Podcast to do an interview. Benny and Jinx are so awesome, and it was so delightful to meet and get to know them a little. Plus it was saving me from having to be around so many people…

 
And yet later I sat in a dark parking lot, ass prickled by bushes, sobbing my sinuses shut and pouring out my jangled thoughts on Twitter / Facebook.
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