Comments on: Hello, Nightmare!

By: mollena

mollena — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 22:21:36 +0000

Hey Lady!

It is for real certain that I grow the most in those places where the pruning shears have cut the deepest. I don’t usually go seeking out really fucked up shit, it organically creeps in. It feels different to look TOWARDS something damaging and want it than to have something come up suddenly and cope with it. Difference between encountering a big cat in the bush in the dark and climbing into the lion enclosure, yanno?

By: mollena

mollena — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 22:02:51 +0000

There is so much at stake when we share the Really Bad Things with peolpe we love and respect. Te fear that we will finally have hit on the DEAL BREAKING EVIL is there, as well as the fear of rejection, and abandonment.

Sometimes I challenge myself to tell Just One Person about these bits and pieces, to see how it feels. And, thus far, I’ve been good at selecting my confessors

Thank you for reading and for sharing!

Peace.

~Mo

By: Stella

Stella — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 21:28:12 +0000

It truly is the dark desires that I face down, that I am most proud. Oh sure, I have had LOTS of play. I have had lots of dangerous, extremely painful and scary things happen that I could “safeword” out of. It is those times that I invited “Daddy” into my life on a permanent basis when “Hitting” was the last thing on his mind. It is those times that when She looked me in the eyes and saw someone that didn’t measure up for being black, She wasn’t doing it for effect. I need these things in my life if I am really going to live a life without fear. believe it, for all of us, it could have gone a whole other direction. I say, good for you for not only facing them down, but for knowing that they need to be addressed ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.

By: Nadia West

Nadia West — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 19:43:49 +0000

Thanks for tackling the subject of dark, dark fantasies. I think many of us have them but won’t admit it. I usually tuck mine away in the back of my mind when they surface… although a few I’ve been brave enough to admit to my Dom. And I hate to admit that I think it’s hot for him to force me to do things I find repulsive.
Nadia West´s most recent blog moment of Zen on the net was…Coming and Caning

By: mollena

mollena — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 19:12:10 +0000

ZOMG world’s longest “trailer!!!”

Well, actually that is likely the teaser reel for distributor viewing…not a theatrical trailer.

But I digress.

I had a similar reaction to “Irréversible” when I first heard about it…though I haven’t watched the entire flick, I did find a clip of the notorious rape scene. Sickening, horrible, graphic, disturbing, and, up to a certain point, horribly arousing. Then it pushed beyond even my comfort level…and “Voilà…fin.”

I think, to a certain extent, there will always be something we find fascinating that also repulses.

xoxo

By: Heidi Anderson

Heidi Anderson — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 18:56:20 +0000

I understand completely, although I lack your means of attaining the fantasy.

I was on Jezebel today, and watched the trailer for The Killer in Me, and I know I was supposed to be as horrified and upset as those ladies. But I wasn’t. I was turned on.

http://jezebel.com/5401274/the-killer-inside-me-sex-death–sadism