Comments on: Ask The Negress: For the New Kids on the Block. http://www.mollena.com/2009/12/ask-the-negress/ it ain't just the hair that's kinky Wed, 08 Feb 2012 02:41:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Kyle http://www.mollena.com/2009/12/ask-the-negress/comment-page-1/#comment-8177 Kyle Wed, 23 Dec 2009 18:44:04 +0000 http://www.mollena.com/?p=5501#comment-8177 Amen, sister! I'm a relative newbie to kink and have never been to a dungeon or a munch or anything. It's good to be reminded that it's not a race or a competition, that everyone was a newbie at one point and that learning is a lifetime process. It's easy to get caught up in the idea that people who have done 'it' longer (whatever it is) are automatically the experts. Also, that being an expert in something automatically means they know what's best for you.. which is not the case. Great question and great answers, thanks for sharing .-= Kyle´s most recent blog moment of Zen on the net was...<a href="http://www.butchtastic.net/?p=2552" rel="nofollow">Questions about Poly.. via formspring.me</a> =-. Amen, sister! I’m a relative newbie to kink and have never been to a dungeon or a munch or anything. It’s good to be reminded that it’s not a race or a competition, that everyone was a newbie at one point and that learning is a lifetime process. It’s easy to get caught up in the idea that people who have done ‘it’ longer (whatever it is) are automatically the experts. Also, that being an expert in something automatically means they know what’s best for you.. which is not the case.

Great question and great answers, thanks for sharing
.-= Kyle´s most recent blog moment of Zen on the net was…Questions about Poly.. via formspring.me =-.

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