The Perverted Negress » Mo’s Twitter Natterings: 2009-12-23

December 23, 2009

Mo’s Twitter Natterings: 2009-12-23

Filed under: Twitter — Mollena Williams @ 8:00 am

Yanno, @blackstarmedia, if he weren't so great it would ache a little less. I don't like wishing I were different. in reply to blackstarmedia #
@Cynraven no, I did not know. I was doing that whole "don't force the hand, enjoy the date!" Thing. in reply to Cynraven #
@phillyeboni yeah….like me. Mono and single. in reply to phillyeboni #
@professornoir lol touché in reply to professornoir #
@blackstarmedia its funny because the shitty feeling only hit afterwards. Ah well. Hhey look. A growth opportunity! in reply to blackstarmedia #
@Catwoman69y2k Yup. And then just brace yourself for interesting emotional backwash afterwards. in reply to Catwoman69y2k #
@rubberzebra Appreciated and shit in reply to rubberzebra #
@thepixiepop Thank you sweetheart…you are such a joy. in reply to thepixiepop #
@CASizemore I was making an effort to leave things to the "face to face" discussion thing. No way to know I'd be sad in the aftermath. in reply to CASizemore #
Oy vey…@Angrydyke I must be fucked up too. I don't want to eliminate a potential partner but…I don't want to be one in the crowd either. #
@Bextopia I'm actually pretty proud of me too. I've come a long, long way. in reply to Bextopia #
@lunaraven13 Oh girl…thank you in reply to lunaraven13 #
@Melkitty ((much appreciated baby) in reply to Melkitty #
@primesuspect ((right back and squeezy)) in reply to primesuspect #
@SexyShida I'll perk in a bit, sweetie…just a little dampened tonight….. in reply to SexyShida #
@BlogWellDone One of this e fucking growth opportunities, my friend. Ugh. Thank you for the sympathetic energy. in reply to BlogWellDone #
@airikiss In my trying to remain open and honor folk's communication styles, "knowing from jump" can wind up with flag-on-the-play offsides. in reply to airikiss #
@CASizemore Oh I did. in reply to CASizemore #
@TheDarklady He seems to be the kind that has 2 partners, and made no overtures that he was looking for a primary or slave. in reply to TheDarklady #
@BlogWellDone ….like a godddamned emotional kidney stone! #
Ugh. I can't even eat my delicious and awesome Red velvet Cupcakes from @CupsCakesBakery. There will be joy at work tomorrow. #
@RayGarton Oh goodness…straight up married men? No, thank you. PLus, my goodness…those horrid khakis… in reply to RayGarton #
Thanks everybody, for the love and encouragement I'm just gonna hunker down here on the Island of Misfit Subs with my stuffed elephant. #
@RayGarton *laughs* thanks Groucho in reply to RayGarton #
#TheDate rwad my recent post on mono & poly too, @CASizemore. Chose to defer elaborating on his position till face-to-face. And fair enough. #
And I, not knowing his status or much of what his story was, I was game to check it out The side-effect of post-date crash is what it is #
@whipartist Yep. That's why I figured having the discussion and checking one another out in person was the way to go. in reply to whipartist #
@airikiss I'm sorry! I hope it wasn't terribly rough in the parting ways :-\ in reply to airikiss #
That misfit toys reference reminded me of this funny cartoon from forever ago…. http://badgods.com/rudolph.html #
@SexyShida ((hugs)) in reply to SexyShida #
You are tempted today to be like an ostrich and bury your head… More for Gemini http://twittascope.com/twittascope/?sign=3 #
@TheDarklady he has 2 partners currently. Wasn't forthcoming about any desire for emotional commitment at present and doesn't ID as dominant in reply to TheDarklady #
@Delisile oh I'm sure they do. Its pretty common. But my reflex is to feel like the one with the "problem." in reply to Delisile #
@MargoEve I don't feel as though it was necessarily a collecting dates thing ; I'm not rigidly monogamous so the converstion had to be had. in reply to MargoEve #
@kahlanas odd. I followed you weeks ago. in reply to kahlanas #
@quotidianlight Tired. And foolish. in reply to quotidianlight #
@kahlanas I just checked your profile and you come up as someone I follow. Somethings wonky on twitter I think. in reply to kahlanas #
Further, @saynine I'm not •strictly• monogamous. I play well with others. But I can't do that solo. I need that primary heart connection. in reply to saynine #
@MargoEve I don't know how to respond to the "down on poly" comment as I've spoken with many poly people who share my struggle with it. in reply to MargoEve #
@MargoEve I'm just talking about my experience. in reply to MargoEve #
Well, @saynine that's the thing. I'm not an •unsuitable• partner for someone who isn't monogamous. So, I feel I should leave room for it. in reply to saynine #
And I communicated clearly. And I had a very good evening with someone with whom I've a lot in common, and find fascinating. #
•smile• @katebornstein…mama why do I keep feeling like •I• am the one who needs to change around this? I'm wondering if I'm not hubristic. in reply to katebornstein #
@saynine I admire the way you and @jewelgen relate to one another in your poly. And I would say that your process is solid and time-tested. in reply to saynine #
@saynine No man. Hardly. I appreciate your viewpoint very much. in reply to saynine #
Q:Have you come to realize that you are … A:I have varying levels of skincomfort. … http://formspring.me/Mollena/q/4586062 #formspringme #
Q:Being you are more of a mono than poly… A:I'm of this rather freakish split mind… http://formspring.me/Mollena/q/4874895 #formspringme #
@Ropecast Oh you're fucked now. Just you wait till I get showered…. in reply to Ropecast #
@katebornstein It won't surprise you that me and "The Fool" are well acquainted in tarot circles. Jump jump jump. in reply to katebornstein #
@MargoEve *nodding* I *think* I'd have to stick "non monogamous" on myself. Poly to me connotes multiple heart connections. in reply to MargoEve #
@MargoEve I'm less capable of this in my d/s and m/s innards. my need to be owned doesn't jibe well with an owner who has multiple property. in reply to MargoEve #
@MargoEve …and it *IS* complex. That is why I leave my possibilities open. in reply to MargoEve #
@thepixiepop Hey sweetie! ((hugs)) in reply to thepixiepop #
@mdstillman *laughs* Who know Teh Ebilz Empire of Facebook was capable of subtlety?? in reply to mdstillman #
@mdstillman This is true. However. Not all sites acknowledge that level of complexity at all. in reply to mdstillman #
Wow…the solicitor general went to my high school. #
@MargoEve Not for me, no. I wouldn't be their primary. in reply to MargoEve #
@AliceSinAerie it is true. I followed up and let him know I thought he was awesome. Regardless our paths will cross @ an upcoming event. in reply to AliceSinAerie #
@AliceSinAerie ….which he will be attending with one of his partners. in reply to AliceSinAerie #
@MargoEve Yes I've had good play relationships and friendships with folks in that configuration. I'm not eliminating any possibility. in reply to MargoEve #
@MargoEve My core need is to have a bonded relationship that is emotionally mono-focused. Who fills what need outside that isnt set in stone in reply to MargoEve #
@curious_cat09 I ont use that term. Primary partner, Owner, that's what I want. in reply to curious_cat09 #
@curious_cat09 Indeed…which is why I clarified my position. in reply to curious_cat09 #
@MargoEve *nods* which is why #TheDate's initial expression of a desire to talk in person about relationship dynamics wasn't a deal breaker. in reply to MargoEve #
@MargoEve I get that some stuff needs subtle discussion. I'm ambivalent if I was met halfway in being *abundantly* clear on current statuses in reply to MargoEve #
@joqatana Well, a first date is, arguably ASAP, no? in reply to joqatana #
@Wylddelirium *lol* I'm rather out of practice on the dating thing. I guess I wonder how far you have to question things beforehand…? in reply to Wylddelirium #
@joqatana Yeah I don't feel "strung along" I felt more like "Hm. OK. Well, that changes things." in reply to joqatana #
@MataLeao Yes, at this point, I do. Which is why I restrict my play, at present, to my friends. in reply to MataLeao #
@MargoEve …and thank you for asking. Sometimes "thinknig aloud" is a good way to hash stuff out in reply to MargoEve #
ROFFLiNG http://i.imgur.com/9INZ6.jpg #
@Ropecast *wincing* I feel you. I live with that here. in reply to Ropecast #
@naylandblake …I am mystified. Is kindness spoken by a haunted tampon…? in reply to naylandblake #
@LeatherYenta @writingdirty Oy vey I haven't looked since I signed up. Are all of the identities upper/lower denominated? I don't wanna look in reply to LeatherYenta #
@bootpig Your brain has Shanghaied mine. I'm going to totally blame your brain for my brains AWOLitude! in reply to bootpig #
@joqatana I think it helps to get as much info up fron tas possible. If I go out on a date in the future, I *will* ask explicitly. in reply to joqatana #
@kahlanas I just DMed you and it is showing up in my sent column. Freaky. in reply to kahlanas #
I just realized I fucked up on something dumb. Yay. I'm a total idiot! *goes to undo-and-redo-ad-infinitum* #
OK I'm not totally broken. I still can't get enough of that hot Mark Davis fucking girls up pr0n. #SomeThingsNeverChange #
lol @controlenthused! I met him a few years back, and blurted "Oh! I've masturbated to you SO many times!" He was delighted & hugged me. #
@bacon_lover High five dude. Seriously. He DOES!!! in reply to bacon_lover #
@sashapixlee I wasn't there. You can't blame me. in reply to sashapixlee #
@sashapixlee I reserve the right to not take the hit on that! in reply to sashapixlee #
Q:If you could have a day to spend with … A:Josephine Baker. To this day, her achi… http://formspring.me/Mollena/q/5102184 #formspringme #
@Ropecast I wish I'd been able to bet money because I completely pegged that reply. in reply to Ropecast #
When a Less Than Optimal motivation begins to sneak into my mind's eye, I'm split on wondering if i am being realistic, or pessimistic. #
@sashapixlee OK, then. Proceed. in reply to sashapixlee #
@bacon_lover we shoud get @KellyShibari to see if Mark would do a shoot for #PaddedKink. For *THAT* I'd reconsider shooting hardcore. in reply to bacon_lover #
@ButchtasticKyle @saynine Can I be the #MuseOfPervDay? in reply to ButchtasticKyle #
@katebornstein No tumbling towers! I'm bringing in masons and special stoneworkers to get that shit together!! **loves** in reply to katebornstein #
@MamaGaea ..or just get a cuffed shirt. Also hot, and less permanent / expensive / invasive in reply to MamaGaea #
@e_lust The link you posted goes to some random news story…FYI in reply to e_lust #
@ButchtasticKyle Oy…just talk to @vicious_kind….he *IS* a pervy clown idol. in reply to ButchtasticKyle #
My Grandma & Grandpa http://mollena.tumblr.com/post/295704068/my-maternal-grandparents …back in the day. #
@MamaGaea Aren't they beautiful? in reply to MamaGaea #
@MinVanLib Yeah it is funny how little resemblance I have to my Dad's side of the family. Well…except for all the addiction. THAT I got. in reply to MinVanLib #
@jsavoie I have so few photos, I am so appreciative of what I have. I think it would have had to been right after WWII. in reply to jsavoie #
@bootpig W0000000000000000000000000ty! in reply to bootpig #
@Nyxx I do what I can to spread the weakness! Will I see you in February? I'll bring you some *special* in reply to Nyxx #
@MarcieAlana OMG they are so bad ASS!!! in reply to MarcieAlana #
@quotidianlight I know! it is kinda weird. That face kicks off a lot of genetic interference in reply to quotidianlight #
Brace yourself for Teh Cute: http://www.thecuteproject.com/images/news/523.jpg Srsly…gah…insulin…. #
@Nyxx Yuo can come visit me at the hotel. I'm not going to risk being tempted to lick a flagpole. in reply to Nyxx #
@jsavoie *lol* I know very little about my Grandparents but nothing would surprise me in reply to jsavoie #
@Virgotex I seem to have a history of lookin' snazzy in pix in my family in reply to Virgotex #
Hey wow OK random brutal sexual fantasy. I got porn to watch. Good lord. Back up. :-\ #
@naylandblake ((hugs)) Would you like to send our moroses away on vacation? They both need to get the hell on about they bizznass. in reply to naylandblake #
Merry….Christmas….? http://www.santasm.net/ #WhatHasBeenSeenCannotBeUnseen #
@BODaciousSecret I know!! Isn't it awesome?!?! in reply to BODaciousSecret #
@aagblog If *I* have to hurt, *EVERYONE* will hurt. in reply to aagblog #
Fellow #FetLifeers will be pleased to know that @JohnBaku is now scarred for life by http://www.santasm.net/ #
@Melkitty Ha! Win!! in reply to Melkitty #
My friend Michael posted http://santasm.com on his friend's FB page and a friend of HIS knows the big guy. #ItsASmallWorldAfterAll #
Sorry that last post shoul have the domain .net ;-D #
Axe me anyfink http://formspring.me/Mollena #
Kinky! RT @cunningminx via @furrygirl Step aside, Uggs&Snuggies! The greatest homely anti-fashion statement = http://i.imgur.com/RtrTO.jpg #
Just got my copy of #BestSexWriting2010 and there I am in print. What a miracle. #
Thanks to @raquelita, I have my own story and thoughts fully expressed in print. Opa! #BestSexWriting2010 #
And of course, @Graydancer, you're quoted in my essay on "BDSM & Playing With Race" in #BestSexWriting 2010. You're so (in)famous! #
You can pre-order #Best SexWriting here: http://bit.ly/78hvFR get it while I'm still humble and shit and will autograph it for ya :-p #
Q:How would you describe Subspace to som… A:For me subspace varies according to th… http://formspring.me/Mollena/q/5542973 #formspringme #
@sistablu *waves* thanks for retweeting in reply to sistablu #
@blackstarmedia Mm, delicious asparag—-OMG teh HYPNOSNEAKERS!! in reply to blackstarmedia #
An old friend just found me on #FetLife. After reading his profile and cackling I have to smile at how some things never fucking change. #
Yeh @Melkitty it is Kevin. He is one of the sickest motherfuckers walking. For reals. #
@Melkitty I'll see if I can get him to address the FlavorSaver ;-P~~ in reply to Melkitty #
@katebornstein much love in reply to katebornstein #
Yay! Totally invading @JaniceStine and @Lochai's house next weekend. PANTYRAID! #
@EssinEm Only ridiculous if it is *bad* cake. in reply to EssinEm #
@b_playful Ha! Have to sleep eventually… *lol* in reply to b_playful #
@MamaGaea dunno if you do corsets but a corset over a men's shirt is hot as hell. in reply to MamaGaea #

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