BDSM & Leather Biography.
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This “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator and Executive Pervert. She is extremely honored, humbled and proud to have served as International Ms Leather 2010. She is also thrilled to have been named Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009 after that contest’s decade long slumber.
She is deeply honored to have been nominated for the 21st Annual Pantheon of Leather’s Woman of the Year & Northern California Regional Awards.
Exploring kink since 1993 and active in BDSM and the Leather Community since 1996, she speaks at Leather, BDSM and Kink events across the US, Europe and Canada on many Leather and BDSM focused topics. She also brings the knowledge on Kink, BDSM and Leather to such august institutions of higher learning as SF and Cal State, Harvard, Yale, Stamford, and Brown for IvyQ.
Mollena’s been sober since 3-14-2007 and in December that same year, she founded “Safeword,” a 12-step based recovery group for all kinksters seeking recovery from addiction.
International Ms Leather 2010 was truly an international title year with visits to the Pride Festival in Stockholm, Sweden, where she made history as the first Leatherwoman ever invited to march with the venerable Scandinavian Leathermen’s Association! She’s also done her thing in Dublin, Ireland, Berlin, Germany, the UK: toured Amsterdam, Netherlands for Leather Pride, as well as teaching and performing in Vancouver, Canada. A roll-up of her epic IMsL 2010 title year can be found here!

A founding member of Crowded Fire Theater Company, Mo blogs on http://mollena.com and is the author of the “Toybag Gude: Taboo Play.” Her essays appear in 2 anthologies curated by Rachel Kramer Bussel: ”BDSM and Race Play” appears in “Best Sex Writing 2010,” and “Kiss my Boots” is featured in ”The Lust Chronicles.” Her challenging essay on “race play” is featured in“Spirit of Desire: Personal Journeys in Sacred Kink” edited by Lee Harrington. Not one but two essays commissioned by Tristan Taormino will be appearing in the upcoming book, “The Ultimate Guide to Kinky Sex.” Mollena is pleased and delighted to be a featured educator with The Kink Academy, where you can see clips of her speaking on various and sundry topics!
She is also a columnist for SexIs Magazine, where she lets loose twice a month on just about anything. Stay tuned for her podcasts on Erotic Awakening, too! She’s a founding member of San Francisco’s Crowded Fire Theater Company and her blog, The Perverted Negress is at mollena.com
As a model, Mollena has been featured on the Folsom Street Fair 2010 Poster, as well as modeling for Stormy Leather. She has worked with many well-known and renowned kink, Leather and fetish photographers, including Stacie Joy, Laren Leland, Aeric Meredith-Goujon, Melvin Moten, Don Sir and Michele Serchuk: who’s photograph of Mollena posing with fellow educator Graydancer was featured in the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival 2010.
She was recently featured in a groundbreaking interview at TheGrio.com on BDSM and race. Her work’s also been published by the Society Of Janus Newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Society’s magazine, Prometheus, as well as the online magazine at ALT.COM and Bondage.com. She has been interviewed for The Bottoming Book, ColorLines Magazine, Bitch Magazine, Abiola Abrams: Love, Sex & Dasting, The Playboy Advisor, Sexploration with Monika and The Reverend Mel Show, SexIs Magazine, The Huffington Post and Racialicious to name a few! She is featured in the award winning documentary “Vice & Consent”. You can also see her all tied up in the instructional video, “Jay Wiseman Teaches Rope Bondage”

Her blog, The Perverted Negress, has been a featured blog on Fleshbot (not Once but TWICE!) as well as the pick of the week for The Sugasm. And boy howdy, the venerated Jane’s Guide thinks The Perverted Negress’ Blog is pretty rad! Mollena is also a member of Mama’s Leather Family (#1231) , formally dubbed “Mama’s Perverted Negress” and pinned in at the SF Eagle by Mama Sandy Reinhardt herself.
Her background includes a lifetime of training and involvement in the performing arts, which include spoken word, classical theater, dance, performance art, and all manner of stagecraft. Her first solo show,69Stories: One Pervert’s Tale has been re-revived and is ready to tour and was a hit in Vancouver in November 2010. You can see an excerpt from it here (“Kiss My Boots” part One, and Part Two)
She Twitters incessantly over on http://twitter.com/mollena, so follow her there!














It’s always a breath of fresh air to meet wonderfully kinky women of color!
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satchel Reply:
February 19th, 2010 at 10:07 am
agreed! I don’t often come across “wonderfully kinky” women of color, so I appreciate each and every one! You should stop over in New England sometime, you’d be most welcome
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Comment by Erika — September 23, 2008 @ 7:23 pm
*deeply inhales the freshness*
Thank you for swinging through!
Well. Virtually.
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Comment by mollena — September 30, 2008 @ 6:39 pm
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Pingback by The Best Sex Bloggers » A Hearty “Hello!” and a HNT+1 holla! — October 24, 2008 @ 1:00 pm
Thank you for coming to Phoenix and speaking at APEX. You are an amazing speaker. I hope you can come back for another visit.
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Comment by Tess — November 11, 2008 @ 5:57 am
Greetings:
Hey, i’d LOVE to have you contribute to an anthology that i’m writing. i’ll tell you more if you are . . .
TempTed. i sure hope that you are.
Hugs and tugs,
charleynmontrose
Author of TempT
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mollena Reply:
May 1st, 2009 at 10:28 am
Wow somehow I totally missed this! Please feel free to contact me via the “Whisper Sweet Nothings” link o the right side of the blog!
xoxo
~Mo
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Comment by Charley Nicole Montrose — January 21, 2009 @ 10:02 am
Hello, I can’t understand how to add your blog in my rss reader
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my blog: http://semev.ru/
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mollena Reply:
May 1st, 2009 at 10:27 am
Greetings!
I am not sure what reader you are using, but there is an RSS button on the front page of the blog (right side, scroll down)
Clicking that should take yo to the RSS feeder of your choice!
Peace
~MO
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Comment by paffivyunwini — April 28, 2009 @ 11:51 am
Mollena, please please please come to Central Wisconsin. Soon. I would love to get to sit and chat with you about so many things over a cup of good coffee. Master promises to come with me to see you if you come to speak (warning: if he gets the chance to talk with you he will tease you outrageously.) I’m going to have to go on his computer now and bookmark your blog for him. He thinks you are gorgeous and I am supposed to tell you “You are not fat” (Thats from him lol).
Many huge hugs
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Comment by kahlana — June 8, 2009 @ 5:57 am
Congratulations,
From what I have heard, seen and read of you, you are an exceptional woman. I do hope at some time to take in one of your workshops.
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Comment by Morloki — April 18, 2010 @ 11:10 am
Hello,
As with the shakespearian Oberon, my significant other is TitaniA. A switching, wonderfully kinky lady of stature, integrity and unparallelled beauty. However, you give her a run for her money in all those respects.
Yours truly, Morten and Tina
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Comment by Oberon — June 27, 2010 @ 2:41 am