HNT: Gettin’ Wiggy Wit’ It.
Â Â When I was a kid I loved wearing my Mom’s wigs occasionally to play dress-up. Being the late 60’s, everybody had a few in the closet ready to go. Â I wish I had the balls to wear wigs more often…it is a really fun way to play dress-up :-) Hair does so…Read More
Please. Don’t do me any favors.
I have been exchanging emails with a dominant I had approached with the intent of getting to know him a little better. I got several brushbacks. He found me “intimidating” somehow…but never elaborated on what that meant. He doesn’t play casually, because his play partners tend to “fall for him” so rather than risk that,…Read More
It would have been enough.
Since I taught a class on Tact and Diplomacy and yadda yadda and talked about shit like “gracious communication” and using “I feel” and “I think” statements, I sure as hell better practice what I preach. Or at least give it my best fucking shot. I was proud that, despite the occasional disappointment, fleeting moment…Read More
Dark Odyssey, day two…
Day two of the Dark Odyssey event and frankly, it is pretty great. My sleep patterns are crazy! My dreams are even crazier…last night involved a complicated play involving a friend of mine attempting to fuck me up the ass behind every door in the room of a 56 room Victorian mansion..yesh. It was, at…Read More
Please don’t hurt the…masochist???
I value the relationships I have formed within the BDSM community. It is not only that we have the commonality of kink, it is that being a pervert means that you smite the artifice of sexual Gerrymandering. I am living a charmed life in some ways. My lifestyle as an “Out Kinky Pervert” actually was…Read More
Jane’s Guide!! Ooo ooo, yay!!
Â The Perverted Negress You know you’re in for a witty treat of a writer when there is a line that involves the term “Jacks-off Pollock.” It only gets better from there. Mollena is the Perverted Negress, and her blog is a delightful mix of news, the occasional review of a sex toy/sexuality item, pictures…Read More
I have too many. Â Identities. I do not even feel compelled to list them all lest they take on the glib slickness I am striving to escape even now. Â I do not want to be looked at. Â I need to be seen. Â And using attitude as costuming, my history as the…Read More
It has been a long time since I have participated in a full-bore ass to the ground mind in the ether scene. I wonder if “Use it or lose it!” applies here? I remember my first scenes. And how the pain was such a strange flavour. Garlic ice cream peppery cotton candy chocolate bacon flavours.…Read More
I just want your extra time and your…
I find it very interesting that even the most jaded perverts seem to agree with my particular POV: kissing is an extremely intimate act. I had an ongoing casual thing, for years, with someone who I don’t think I ever kissed. Perhaps the first time. Maybe. Once. However. When the stated purpose of the meeting…Read More
Where ARE these “Predatory dominants”?
I attend quite a few Kink / Leather / BDSM events. I don’t wear obvious symbols of ownership.* I’m a pretty friendly person. I can count on one hand the times I’ve been slimed by tops at these events. in over 11 years, it is an extremely rare occurrence. But to read the fluttering panicky…Read More