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Eartha. Drag Queens. Santa, Baby.
RIP. When I was a kid there weren’t many bad-ass black ladies kicking butt and looking sexy doing it. And I wasn’t allowed to see Pam Grier flicks, so my role model for asswhippings was Eartha Kitt. Looking fine as hell in that catsuit…damn. She’s obviously inspired a few perverts over the years as well……
Read MoreTHE PERVERTED NEGRESS: ORIGINS
 From 69Stories: One Pervert’s Tale: It was/is an autobiographical telling of bits of my life. None of it is slanderous, libelous, OR untrue These are the facts as I remember them and are retold with joy, and with fond recollection. Mostly ;-) FALLING  Falling is something we usually associate with awkwardness, a loss…
Read MoreIn 14,430.9 days, I have yet to…
Have a ménage à trois that involved multiple men. I don’t think, if memory serves (which it often doesn’t because my memory usually is behind a dumpster somewhere skulking and smoking clove cigarettes and refusing to fetch and carry anything so far as ONE synaptic gap, thankyouverymuch) that I have even had a co-topping scene…
Read MoreYou are not the boss of me!
One of the myths I dispelled immediately among my friends was that being a masochist means that ALL pain is delectable. And that being submissive meant that I’d be doing their dishes. I still hate gong to the dentist, and apart from the supercalifragilisticexpialimasochist dude in Little Shop of Horrors, I know few people who…
Read MorePleasurists #8 – Toy Review Round-Up!
Editor’s Pick LELO Mia by Beautiful Dreamer Note: there is a written component to the review as well. Read it here. Madame Editrix Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek Vibrators Diamond Butterfly by Backseat Boohoo Mia by Ansley Agnello LELO Gigi by Hedonistic Bitch If Jane Jetson Had a Vibrator – bSoft by Ansley Agnello Driving Home –…
Read MorePut up or shut up.
When people are first coming out into the BDSM community and feeling wallflowerish, new, awkward and like a kid on the outskirts of the cafeteria looking for a way to be closer to the “Cool” table, I often recommend that they volunteer for events. Munches are a great way to meet people, sure. BDSM and…
Read MoreWTF Wednesday: Come. On my “face”.
“Do you know what a ‘Tribute photo’ is?” A lazy afternoon in bed with my laptop. I am on IM with an online friend and under normal circumstances, I might take a moment to research the thing myself before responding “No.” I have a thing about gathering knowledge myself. A cursory search turns up very…
Read More“So why are you still single?”
(The name and the grammar have been (partially) changed / corrected to (kinda) protect the innocent) Mollena: Hi there…I suppose it has been an entire day since you sent that IM to me….and my gods were you up early in a Sunday! gimmiesomebooty: lol yea gimmiesomebooty: so how are you chocolate perfection? Mollena: You are…
Read MoreMaking a Dark Odyssey…alone.
I will be leaving beautiful San Francisco to visit our nation’s capital twice within a one-month period. W000t! This first is to take part in the stunning moment of history that is the Coronation Inauguration of Barack Hussein Obama. Holyshit. I still have a slow burn of effulgent shock when I think on what we…
Read MoreShallow Mo…
I don’t usually advertise myself as a switch. Why? Because I’m not, centrally, switch-focused. I have found a depth of fulfillment within my submissive nature that is pretty fucking startlingly WINtastic. But every once in a while someone gets through the cracks and I think “Well, maybe, maybe I could switch…” And I wish it…
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