BDSM In The News
Throwing my corset into the ring!
The stars aligned, the event for which I was supposed to travel to Denver was canceled, I do not have rehearsal for “Drip” that evening, and miraculously I’m insane enough to do it. *deep Breath* I am in the running for Ms. SF Leather 2009!
Read MoreAdult Baby Fetish: UR doin’ it…wrong?
There are plenty of fetishes that evince puzzled looks or giggles from people, and I know that some of mine fall into that category. While the average person can grasp the general concept of “Power Exchange” a more finely-tuned fetish such as racially-motivated play or reverse-anthropomorphic play can be more difficult for folks to grasp.…
Read MoreRace Play Interview – Part IV (Conclusion)
Well this is the wrap up! By Ganesha’s prehensile trunk and gorgeous plump belleh, this shit is EPIC. Thanks for reading along, and thank you Andrea Plaid for her remarkably open mind and thoughtful questions. If you are just jumping in, STOP. STOP RIGHT NOW! I fuckin’ mean it and go back and read the…
Read MoreHEY PERVERTS: Don’t Fuck. Around. With. Strangers.
This story made me cry. Please…my Perverts…my Family…my Tribe. Please be careful. Know your partners. We take so many risks just in the dungeon, in our bedrooms. Please take care of yourselves. And pray for Mr. Weber’s family. ‘Violent sex’ ad led to murder of WABC newsman George Weber, confesses teen: Cops BY Alison Gendar…
Read Morefrom COLORLINES MAGAZINE: “Playing with Race” by Daisy Hernández
Mollena Williams is gregarious, the kind of woman who makes a point of saying, “How are you today?†to the Walgreens cashier. She has a short afro and laughs easily. She works as an administrative assistant and at night, she pens her theater performances. She is also a masochist. Williams is part of San Francisco’s…
Read MoreWTF Wednesday: Tool Time + Play Time = FAIL.
I do not want to “Blame The Victim” in the case of a grim injury. But when the victim voluntarily let someone put an electric saw ANYWHERE NEAR their girl bits, my sympathy evaporates like rubbing alcohol poured on a sidewalk in Dubai in August. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: Â …
Read MoreiPerv.
I don’t have an iPhone. I’m not connected with this company and I’m not making any money off of this. Â But I find it terribly delightful that iPhone has a kinky app. Â From their site: Â Â Need to keep your minions in line? Have an unruly co-worker that you’ve always wanted to smack…
Read MoreWhat kink is NOT. (Or: Yes, Rhianna getting beaten IS our business.)
I don’t do all that much in the celebrity gossip arena save for occasionally snarking. But a recent high-profile abuse case is straddling several areas of thought in my brains today. I know you may know this, but let me reiterate: simply because someone is masochistic, one cannot assume that they would also tolerate abuse.…
Read MoreDungeon Wall-of-Blame: “Mom? Can I borrow your Collar?”
I know so many kinky folks who raise their kids in wonderful loving,  supportive homes. Homes where there just hapen to be parents who are kinky. I know a few of those people who have had their kink used against them in custody cases, and that is is a grim fact of life. As long…
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