Hey! Fucky VD!

I’m in on a bomb-ass collaboration with WritingHannah. She put together a bunch of YouTube, Blog and Twitter gals getting Medieval on “Love“. Enjoy!! And please take a sec to click below to “Digg” it, kthxbai! :-D

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Ms. SF Leather Weekend Info!

Guys, seriously. Get tix in advance and pop the extra ducats for a guaranteed seat. Your feet will thank you! _____________________________________________ Ms. S.F. Leather is holding its first title contest since 1999!! Contest Weekend Events Friday, Oct. 16 – Ms. SF Leather Meet & Greet – Emceed by the fabulous Sister Sarah Femme! Meet the…

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DIY Distress.

I started noticing it when I was in the late-stages of my first kink relationship. The late stage where the sex and kink die-off, you aren’t playing as often, maybe the thrill is gone or you’re in line with 2-5 other women waiting to be slotted in at the dominant’s convenience. And then it began.…

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Sunday Morning Sexytime Story: TMI for AA

After epic fail three times trying to update this shit finally here it is. Jeeze. I’m upgrading my ^%$# AT& service so I don’t have to go through this shit any more. Dag, Yo. Come on in, y’all.

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“Race Play: It NOT a Game:” A dissenting viewpoint.

Most of the people who post opinions contrary to mine on race play do not take the time to articulate much. As I mention, I take into account the opinions and feeling of dissenters whenever I speak or present on the topic. I  am posting here, unedited, and with the express written permission of the original…

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HNT ~ First thing in the morning…

  I try to take HNTs right before I post them, if they aren’t schmancy photos that fit the theme and are already extant. I woke up, remembered I’d forgotten to post, and opened one eye enough to grab the old Android phone.   And here you go.   Happy HNT!   Love   Mo

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Perfectly flawed.

  Being submissive and desiring slavery, craving physical and emotional ownership would seem to place me at a disadvantage, relationship-wise I have to be the one looking to fit into the right “place,” right? I mean, there is the topdominantowner, fully formed and domly and all, needing me to be what THEY need in order…

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Sex 2.0 ~ I’m Coming.

I’ll be at the Sex 2.0 Un-Conference in May, and I’ll be hosting a dee-lightful Salon entitled… Delicious Deviance: On Flying Your Freak Flag. Perhaps you are a full blown pervert, but shy about exposing yourself online? Or maybe you are a fledgling kinkster, and unsure of how to remain true to your self while…

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Not tidy. Not polished. Still real.

Trusting myself enables me to do truly miraculous things…like trust others. Trusting others enables us to do truly miraculous things, like make pain transcendent and find new ways to access our souls. In addition to this past weekend being my second anniversary of being sober (whee!) I was in Chicago to talk about a play-style…

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