BDSM
- Happy Birthday, and Service.
I have some brilliant and talented friends, not the least of whom is the award-winning […]
- Submission: rarely easy, always worth it.
One of the things I am pondering mightily is the reality of submission as it […]
- International Ms Leather 2015 and me.
As International Ms Leather 2010, I weathered my own share of controversy. The IMsL 2015 […]
Education
- Dont Fear Pervert Cooties.
Years back, when social media meant AOL profiles and pages on GeoCities, people relied on […]
- Local Perversion.
Thanks to The Pleasure Chest, I’ll be sharing a lecture right here in New York […]
- Never Say Never.
Yeah, I do not love camping. I just…I don’t like dirt. Or insects. Or “roughing […]
Going's On
- Drei stücke für me!
Those who were at our wedding – or watched it on LiveStream – were able […]
- Submission: rarely easy, always worth it.
One of the things I am pondering mightily is the reality of submission as it […]
- “The most beautiful love story.”
Howdy from Austria. Land of schnitzel & secondhand smoke. It has been quite a stretch […]
Musings
- An Open Letter To Mr. Idris Elba.
Dear Mr. Elba: I admire your skill and talent as a performer. And I am […]
- Service is the drug.
One of the most ephemeral emotional states is that of satisfaction. The sensation of pleasure. […]
- “I don’t…”
I don’t cower I don’t kneel I am never ‘less than’ I don’t beg I […]
Podcasts
- Conversations with The Perverted Negress Episode 13~
Long time no casting, podpeople! We are jumping back in with a swingin’ sack of […]
- Conversations With The Perverted Negress Episode 12B – SPECIAL EDITION: NYC
Part deux !(that’s French, yo. Shout out to J.P. and the whole Toronto French…er…thing. Or […]
- Conversations with The Perverted Negress SPECIAL EDITION NYC Episode 12!
Our Very Special New York Podcasts is in three parts! This is Part One. J.P. […]
Submission
- Submission: rarely easy, always worth it.
One of the things I am pondering mightily is the reality of submission as it […]
- Pride without prejudice.
Sometimes I don’t realize what I’m missing until I have it. Experiencing The Composer‘s pride & […]
- Tell Me You Want Me.
As someone who is submissive, not only in terms of power-exchange relationships but also quite […]
















