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Playing Well With Others

Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink.

While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* - the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.

You'll learn to:

Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires
Ease your way into established communities
Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities
Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you
Care for your relationships as you explore new territory
Negotiate for play and aftercare
Go back to the "world at large" without ruffling feathers
...and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?!

The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom.

Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the "community" aspect of the kink lifestyle.

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The Toybag Guide to Playing With Taboo

For those turned on to giving or receiving power, the hottest fantasies are often those that are the least acceptable.

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For those turned on to giving or receiving power, the hottest fantasies are often those that are the least acceptable - those that mirror historical oppression (Nazism, plantation slavery), crime (incest, ageplay, rape), and other "unacceptable" behaviors. Because these fantasies are deeply charged, they are among the riskiest and most challenging to enact. Yet it is possible, and often very rewarding, to do so.

In this guide, Mollena Williams, a Black woman who enjoys roleplaying racism and slavery with the right person, explains ways to safeguard these difficult scenes to ensure the emotional and physical safety of all concerned.

With sections on playing with sexual taboos like age and rape, cultural taboos like race and identity, and physical taboos like scat play, this is a thorough and responsible guide to BDSM's furthest regions.

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Kink Academy DVD

This curated sample pack of topics will bring me to you.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge

A bold and sexy collection of essays - from expert how-to tutorials to provocative essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power, and pleasure.

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From breastfeeding to swingers to underage sexting, the thinnest condom ever and sex work to the thrill of voyeurism and the story of X-rated Tijuana bibles, Best Sex Writing 2010 covers the latest, hottest topics from the world of sex.

Diana Joseph relives her slutty years while giving a mom's perspective on her teenage son's description of girls in his yearbook, while Brian Alexander teaches us about sex surrogates, and Violet Blue offers a spirited defense of modern porn.

The erotic elements of Twilight, adult sex ed, a visit to a BDSM porn set, the science behind penis size, a very special piece of ass, a cheating wife, and much more make it under the covers of Best Sex Writing 2010, culled from magazines, newspapers, blogs and websites by series editor Rachel Kramer Bussel.

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Best Sex Writing 2010

From breastfeeding to swingers to underage sexting, the thinnest condom ever and sex work to the thrill of voyeurism and the story of X-rated Tijuana bibles, Best Sex Writing 2010 covers the latest, hottest topics from the world of sex.

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This book brings together diverse voices from the kink community in an unprecedented way: each chapter is written by a different sexuality / BDSM educator.

Divided into two sections, the first section features thorough, thoughtful pieces - on everything from flogging to bondage - packed with techniques and beautifully illustrated with original images from artist Katie Diamond. The second section is dedicated to role-playing fantasies and personal manifestos. From age play to masochism, these chapters cover some of the edgiest, most taboo and controversial elements of kink in depth.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink features the expertise of renowned educators writing passionately on their favorite subjects, including Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, Lolita Wolf, Madison Young, Hardy Haberman, Felice Shays, Ignacio Rivera, Sarah Sloane, Mollena Williams, FifthAngel, and Edge. It will educate, inspire, and challenge both newcomers to the world of kink and experienced BDSM players.

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Serving Him: Sexy Stories of Submission

Who knew that BDSM would become the biggest trend in book publishing? Rachel Kramer Bussel did and has emerged as one of the top writers, editors and experts on the subject.

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Serving Him pays homage to those irresistible men who control their partners with a glance, a pair of handcuffs, or a firm smack on the bottom. As true tops, the bossy hunks in these stories understand that erotic BDSM is about exulting in power that is freely yielded. Rachel and her coterie of contributors cover the full range of the male dom's brand of sensual sadism, from spanking and bondage to public sex and power exchange.

Table of contents:

Introduction: Lucky Naughty Girls
What You Deserve Lori Selke
Coffee Break Kristina Wright
Chattel Errica Liekos
Under Direction Teresa Noelle Roberts
The Letter Tiffany Reisz
Run, Baby, Run Vida Bailey
Tackling Jessica Maxine Marsh
Safe, Sane and Consensual Ariel Graham
The Golden Ruler Giselle Renarde
I Always Do Kiki DeLovely
Pinky Kissa Starling
The Breaking Point Cole Riley
Shining in the Dark Bex vanKoot
Room #3 Emily Bingham
Duo J. Sinclaire
Breath Mollena Williams
Silver Fish in the Crystal Pool Gina Marie
The Secret of Time Travel Jacqueline Applebee
Bared Gray Miller
In His Control Jade Melisande
Paper Doll joy
Subbing Rachel Kramer Bussel

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Leather Ever After: An Anthology of Kinky Fairy Tales

Once upon a time, in a dungeon far, far away the kinkiest writers in the land were summoned to pervert beloved fairy tales with tales of dominance, submission, bondage and surrender.

In these stories twisted princesses take control of submissive princes, witches play with power, and fairy tales come to life in our homes and dungeons.

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Herr Meisters Voice - Coming Soon!

From their first winter solstice date in 2013, Georg Friedrich has been delighting Mollena Lee with his wit, passion, thoughtful insights and straight up hilarious takes on the language that we call English.

Previously only available scattered through Facebook posts, these are the carefully curated and collected clips and quotes from the first year of their relationship, and we have it on good authority that this is THE ULTIMATE bathroom book.

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Playing Well With Others

Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink.

The Toybag Guide to Playing With Taboo

For those turned on to giving or receiving power, the hottest fantasies are often those that are the least acceptable.

Kink Academy DVD

This curated sample pack of topics will bring me to you.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge

A bold and sexy collection of essays - from expert how-to tutorials to provocative essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power, and pleasure.

Best Sex Writing 2010

From breastfeeding to swingers to underage sexting, the thinnest condom ever and sex work to the thrill of voyeurism and the story of X-rated Tijuana bibles, Best Sex Writing 2010 covers the latest, hottest topics from the world of sex.

Serving Him: Sexy Stories of Submission

Who knew that BDSM would become the biggest trend in book publishing? Rachel Kramer Bussel did and has emerged as one of the top writers, editors and experts on the subject.

Leather Ever After: An Anthology of Kinky Fairy Tales

Once upon a time, in a dungeon far, far away the kinkiest writers in the land were summoned to pervert beloved fairy tales with tales of dominance, submission, bondage and surrender.

Herr Meisters Voice - Coming Soon!

From their first winter solstice date in 2013, Georg Friedrich has been delighting Mollena Lee with his wit, passion, thoughtful insights and straight up hilarious takes on the language that we call English.

Previously only available scattered through Facebook posts, these are the carefully curated and collected clips and quotes from the first year of their relationship, and we have it on good authority that this is THE ULTIMATE bathroom book.

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