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Capitalize this.
Capitalization’s a tricky thing. What gets caps and what does not when it comes to titles and people we have to address outside of their given names? The shit’s Byzantine, man. (I grabbed this from some grammar site where there was discussion about when pronouns are capitalized.) Names of relationships only when…
Read MoreHow he does it.
“How does he dominate you?†I was a bit taken aback by the question, indeed by the entire situation. I was in Los Angeles, on an extremely raw, wet and chilly Friday night. I was making an appearance on an internet radio show with a panel of folks that consisted of myself, two other kinky…
Read More“The Lily’s Revenge:” a sweet victory.
Performer types know how nerve-wracking it can be to wait to hear about a role. Imagine my torture for three months waiting to hear back about a part in a show! I can now safely share the amazing & stunning development on which  I’ve awaited The Word since September and only today put pen to paper for…
Read MoreLALA Land, Redux!
I’m returning to my former stomping grounds of Los Angeles Today, and doing some fun stuff, some of which you can even watch! On Saturday November 27th, at 10:30 PM PST I’ll be on The Dr. Suzy Show On Monday, November 29th, at 8:00 PM PST, I’ll be on the Rev Mel Show. If you…
Read MorePolyamory Weekly: The Monogamous Chick & The magic Banana.
My homegirl CunningMinx was gracious enough to welcome me to her lovely home while I was in Seattle a couple of weeks ago.  Since she is the Princess of Poly, and as we were dishing on my recent foray into the realm of polyamorous relationships courtesey of The Dominant Guy, she suggested I come on in as…
Read More1344.
Random celebration! Nah, its not any particular milestone. I was just thinking about the past few years and remembering this and that. Pondering how much has shifted, and what remains true. Today is my one thousand, three hundred and forty-fourth day sober. The day I walked into rehab was one of the worst of my…
Read MoreOn his time.
The Dominant Guy nudged me a few days ago about writing something. This immediately popped to the fore, but the past few days have been too thick with Things to focus on it. Thankfully the short hop from SeaTac to SFO cleared me enough to get this out. SO, here’sfor you, sir. Sometimes…
Read More38,000 feet. And falling.
Not particular in thought tonight. Up here on Delta flight 34. Newark to Amsterdam. I’m in 27F Just spilling. Let us see what evolves… There’s a tidal emotional pull I’m feeling of late, and I’d love to ascribe it to coincidence, hormones, projection, conjecture, hysteria or a psychic break. But I don’t think it is…
Read MoreOn living.
I was chatting with a friend this evening about how I simply cannot view films with realistic depictions of violence, because I have physical reactions to them. She has a similar “thing,†and has been that way most of her life. I think mine spiked when I first began exploring BDSM. I KNEW, then, what…
Read MoreCan you hear me now?
I’d eagerly answered my phone when I heard his ringtone, smiling at the image of him looking all badass in the teeny icon on my screen. Â We had spoken extensively earlier in the day, as I’d been waiting for my train to SF from LA, and then for the opening movement of my trip up…
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