Don’t let it slide.

October 6, 2009 |

Too many people, overwhelmingly on the bottom / submissive side of the kink equation, have a tendency to have a “let it slide” attitude. You know. You meet someone, they are very aggressive on the first date, move too fast, but because you emerge unscathed, you “let it slide.” Someone pushes a limit, but maybe…

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Shy Freaks.

August 4, 2009 |

Who we are is never, ever a one-dimensional painting. It is a sculpture, kinetic, a maze, a faceted crystal, a subterranean cavern, an oceanic abyss, a windswept plateau, all of these things. Having a dawning realization that you might resonate with something about BDSM, whether it not it is something as simple as fascination with…

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