Dropping in to London!

sh!I am on my way over to Europe for the Stockholm Fetish Week and I will be popping over to London to see what kinky mischief I can make!

I will be at the Sh! Women’s Store on May 15th, 16th & 17th teaching three classes and would love to see you there!

There will be copies of Playing Well With Others for sale, as well as copies ofToybag Guide: Playing With Taboo and I will also have DVDs of my talks on Submission as I recorded them for Kink Academy!

I also offer private coaching, mentoring and Kink Counseling sessions, about which you can read here. Please contact me directly if interested in scheduling one while I am in London!Negotiation for the Hopelessly Shy and Terribly Awkward

With Mollena Williams: £20
Class Date: Wednesday 15th May 2013
Time: 6:45pm for 7-8.30pm class
Venue: Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporium, 57 Hoxton Square, London N1 6PB
Tel: 020 7613 5458

This class is for Women, Gents & Couples. This class is open to women & couples of all genders and sexual orientations.

Please note: Tickets are not physically issued for this event. Instead, upon purchase, your name will be added to our guest list and you will receive confirmation by email.


Negotiation of scenes can be tough on people who are adept at bargaining, expressing their needs, wants, and desires. So how is this gauntlet to be run by those of us perverts who are super shy or kind of awkward when it comes to saying “I need…” or “I won’t…” or giving the dreaded “No.” ??

Join Mollena Williams, Closeted Shy Freak ™ as she shares some techniques that can help even the most awkward kinkster battle their own personal hurdles and insure that your needs are met, your expectations expressed more clearly, and that your scenes are satisfying for all parties! Bring your questions (jot ‘em down if you are too shy to ask!) and we’ll brainstorm ways to help you on your own journey to openness, clear communication and awesomeness!

Mollena Williams identifies as a selective submissive, feminist, power slave, masochist, educator and Executive Pervert. Sexually liberated since her first high school relationship where she explored polyamory and openly kinky since 1993, she travels the world speaking to the kinky and the kink-curious on topics ranging from the basics of negotiation to extreme “edge-play.”

This class will help introduce you to some of the groundwork you may wish to undertake before diving into rough sex and kinky fun! We will look at ways to examine your own desires and motivations, negotiating for success, striving for emotional safety, and advice about some of the challenges you may well encounter in your play. Come explore in a safe and relaxed conversation, bring your questions and curiosities and leave you inhibitions at the door!

  • In line with the store’s female focus we ask that single guys come along with a female friend.

Role-Playing: Using Your Head to Get Out of Your Body!

With Mollena Williams: £20

Class Date: Thursday 16th May 2013
Time: 6:45pm for 7-8.30pm class
Venue: Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporium, 57 Hoxton Square, London N1 6PB
Tel: 020 7613 5458
This class is for Women, Gents & Couples. This class is open to women & couples of all genders and sexual orientations.

Please note: Tickets are not physically issued for this event. Instead, upon purchase, your name will be added to our guest list and you will receive confirmation by email.

Although every child is an expert, as adults we frequently forget how to pretend, play “make-believe” and lose yourself in a story. Sure, you might have the hot fantasy of being an abducted princess or a captured spy, but how do you get past your day-to-day thought process and into to the spirit of this, one of the purest forms of play? How can you dissolve your ego into another character, and what do you do if you just wind up feeling pretty silly?

In this class, we will discuss techniques for planning, negotiating and executing role-playing scenes, and how to boost your “other” energy. You’ll have a chance to play some games, to watch some play, and to let yourself go.

Join long-time practitioner of Kink, BDSM and member of the Leather Community Mollena Williams, who identifies as a selective submissive, feminist, power slave, masochist, educator and Executive Pervert. Sexually liberated since her first high school relationship where she explored polyamory and openly kinky since 1993, she travels the world speaking to the kinky and the kink-curious on topics ranging from the basics of negotiation to extreme “edge-play.”

This class will help introduce you to some of the groundwork you may wish to undertake before diving into rough sex and kinky fun! We will look at ways to examine your own desires and motivations, negotiating for success, striving for emotional safety, and advice about some of the challenges you may well encounter in your play. Come explore in a safe and relaxed conversation, bring your questions and curiosities and leave you inhibitions at the door!

  • In line with the store’s female focus we ask that single guys come along with a female friend.

Beyond ’50 Shades of Grey’ – Dominance and Submission in a Technicolor World.

With Mollena Williams: £20

Class Date: Friday 17th May 2013
Time: 6:45pm for 7-8.30pm class
Venue: Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporium, 57 Hoxton Square, London N1 6PB
Tel: 020 7613 5458

This class is for Women, Gents & Couples. This class is open to women & couples of all genders and sexual orientations.

Please note: Tickets are not physically issued for this event. Instead, upon purchase, your name will be added to our guest list and you will receive confirmation by email.


Have you fantasized about rough sex, about taking control of your lover, about relinquishing yourself to the will of a partner, about the intersection of pain and pleasure? Do you long to experience the sensuality of bondage, or perhaps the emotional thrill of role-playing? Perhaps you’ve had these fantasies for your entire life and had no idea such wild fantasies could ever be manifested.

It could be you’ve read some hot fiction and thought “Yes. This, this is what I need!” It may well be you’ve been too cautious or hesitant to explore them because you’ve been taught “Only abusers hit people!” or “If you’re submissive you are an emotional doormat.” or “People who engage in BDSM are damaged and emotionally unsafe.”

Join long-time practitioner of Kink, BDSM and member of the Leather Community Mollena Williams, who identifies as a selective submissive, feminist, power slave, masochist, educator and Executive Pervert. Sexually liberated since her first high school relationship where she explored polyamory and openly kinky since 1993, she travels the world speaking to the kinky and the kink-curious on topics ranging from the basics of negotiation to extreme “edge-play.”

This class will help introduce you to some of the groundwork you may wish to undertake before diving into BDSM, ways to examine your own desires and motivations, finding and flirting with potential partners, negotiating for success, and advice about some of the challenges my may well encounter in your journey. Come explore in a safe and relaxed conversation, bring your questions and curiosities and leave you inhibitions at the door!

Find out more about Mollena Williams at her website here!

This class is open to women & couples of all genders and sexual orientations.

  • In line with the store’s female focus we ask that single guys come along with a female friend.
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2 Comments

  1. Hettie Hanline on May 28, 2013 at 7:58 AM

    I’ve been there, really pleased to see you :)



  2. Edmond Koenning on June 4, 2013 at 3:06 AM

    I’ve been there too thanks for that. :)