ECLIPSE Women & TransFolk Play party!
Friday, March 5 2010
8:00PM – 1:00AM
Hosted by Ms. Cat & Ajax
Friday, March 5th 8pm-1am at the SF Citadel
Admission: $25
ECLIPSE IS BACK! If you haven’t been to an Eclipse party – what are you waiting for? Eclipse is a powerful gathering of Women and Trans perverts…all eager to indulge. The intoxicating energy at Eclipse has become known for its intensity and there’s always a surprise to keep our guests on their toes….er knees? In our 3rd year, we’re hotter than ever with fresh music, more presenters, and new themes to help inspire your fantasies! If your in the women’s’ community or ever wanted to get connected, Eclipse if the place to be with our interactive entertainment. (more…)
Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy with Mollena Williams
Where: smOdyssey
Class room is at 1725 De la Cruz, Suite #5,Santa Clara, CA
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When: Tuesday February 23, 2010
Time: 7:00pm – 9:00pm
Cost: $10.00 members of smOdyssey, Inc- $15.00 non-members
Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives:
Embracing Dichotomy
Self-identification is difficult for anyone in the alternative lifestyle. It can be even more challenging for people who see themselves as strong in their lives but desirous of submission. There is a great deal of pressure in the BDSM community to “seem submissive,” so what do you do when you see yourself as strong and fierce and yet crave mastery and domination? Believe me, you are not alone. There are many submissives and bottoms and slaves who are strong and independent and finding their way through the maze of the Kink Community! This class is an intense discussion of self-assessment personal identification, passion and power. From those who struggle with their desire to submit, to those who strive for greater strength of purpose, this class will be a wonderful opportunity to bond with the likeminded and suss out your strength in an open setting. And for tops dominants and masters, this is an excellent opportunity to get into the mind of those who are strong and embrace the dichotomy of strength in submission and freedom in slavery!
The Wolf Princess
I am fortunate. I am lucky to have “Grown up” in one of the more vibrant and open cities when it comes to alternative lifestyles. As a magnet for all manner of freaks, San Francisco is one of the crossroads: all of the “Big Name Fancy Perverts” come on through.
My favourite part of getting to know high-profile kinksters is when I realize that they are “just folks” and than their knowledge and standing and cred doesn’t make them inaccessible. One of the women I have respected for a very long while is Lolita Wolf, and I am fortunate enough to have had our paths cross, and have been able to go from dorky fan girl to dorky fangirl and occasional fortunate recipient of her amazing attentions.
After I managed to stammer out some doofy inquiry, I wound up landing myself spot #23 on her “100 Divas” list. And never in my life have I been so glad to have been twenty-third.
You can read my account of this truly delightful encounter here…
SO, on the occasion of her birthday, I say Happy Birthday, Lolita! I also say Thank you for all you do to educate and inspire, for your warmth and honesty and sparkly smile and playful, sweet sadism.
Furthermore, I also say you can smack me around any time you damn well feel like it and I’m within striking distance.
Thou art awesome!
With Love…
#23
I was moping a bit because I didn’t have a date or nuttin. for the New Year thing.
But now I do.
I few hundred dates, I guess.
Will you be one of them? Shout out if you’re going! Click the banner to register if you wanna be!
No one can say Gray doesn't love the pussy.
Leave it to Gray to go ranting about some shit.
The subject of the most recent Graydancer’s Ropecast included a rant (which isn’t all that ranty, so if you are hoping for spittle-flying desk-pounding histrionics, you’ll be sorely disappointed. I kinda was hoping for some heavy breathing and shouting, but noooooo…) about the difficulty of teaching suspension bondage in the environment of a broad-spectrum BDSM event.
To get it from the old goat’s mouth, go here:
To paraphrase: the thrust of his rant seems to be that it is near to impossible to teach suspension well in the context of a short-form class. There are too many skills involved to really do the thing right. In a mid/advanced-level rope-specific setting, with several hours allocated, small classes and multiple instructors, he beleives a class on suspension would seem to be more feasible.
This is partially due to the fact that many, many people attending cons might be dabbling in playstyles with which they have little to no familiarity, and zero experience.
Gray pondered the core issue of someone who possessed no rope of their own and had never done any rope bondage deciding that they wanted to take a suspension class. The issue being, you know too little: why would you think you could do this at all? Seems kind of presumptuous to jump in to one of the most complex types of rope bondage there is on your first go, right? (more…)
Thanks to my AMAZING friends, I have a FANTASTIC array of goods, services and delights for the lucky winner(s) of the basket I am offering in my run for Ms. SF Leather 2009!
Seriously, this is a tribute to the Leather Community and how people will pull together for a common cause. Further, it is a testament to how fortunate we are to live in a world where people of ALL walks of life believe in our vision of spiritual and sexual freedom!
Check out my SPONSOR PAGE for info on everyone listed below. These people and companies are on the cutting edge, folks. They believe in freedom, and I believe in them.
I am humbled to add their gifts to the fund to raise money for LYRIC and the Transgender Law Center!
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Busy and bumbling, that is:-)
I am getting swamped by rehearsals for an amazing show I’m in, and you should come see it. Hell, I got peeps coming from bloody Wisconsin and Florida to see it! “Drip” is gonna be OUTSTANDING.
I am in the home stretch for the Ms. SF Leather Contest! (more…)
Got some gigs booked for NYC, people! I am deeply delighted honored and straight up wiggly at the prospect of going Home and being able to perv out with new and old friends.
Here is the line-up so far…and if you know of a venue or organization whom I ought to contact and squeeze in to this trip, give me a holler!
I’ll be presenting for the FANTASTIC Lesbian Sex Mafia on March19th. As of now, I’m leaning towards the class on “Playing with Taboos” HOWEVER I am open to suggestions! (more…)
It is time again for the SM Odyssey Folsom Fringe!
I’ve been attending SM Odyssey events since they started ‘em up back in 1998 with the Kinky Prom. Man that brings back some memories…
Now I’m a jaded ole perv and am rolling on down to San Jose with a few hundred pervs from far and wide to celebrate the community, the kink, and to learn and play and generally get our Leather on.
I’m breaking out a new class… “BOUNDARY SMACKDOWN” that is focused on overcoming internal and external inhibitors to satisfaction in your personal kinkscape. I’m curious to see how it is received!
I am also super thrilled that a long-time friend, Evil Mommy Tina, will be doing some picture taking of me while I’m there! I am usually insanely self-conscious about photography so it helps to have someone I absolutely love and trust to do the honors…
And the of course there’s Sunday, the big day. My costume pieces almost didn’t make it, and I still have a few errands to run to be ready to do my thing on Folsom Sunday! It is the first year I’m using a masked costume, so I am curious to see how that experience is…
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The stars aligned, the event for which I was supposed to travel to Denver was canceled, I do not have rehearsal for “Drip” that evening, and miraculously I’m insane enough to do it.
*deep Breath*
I am in the running for Ms. SF Leather 2009!
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