An afternoon with Adam.

This is me and my friend, Adam. We have known one another since first grade. And through a bizarre and hilarious series of coincidences, his kinky wife met a mutual photographer friend and one thing led to another and his passing thought, years ago, about the two of us doing a photo shoot wound up…

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Boba FettLife!

One of the awesome “Rules if the Internet” is Rule 34: If it exists, there is porn of it. A friend on Facebook, upon seeing me mention Fetlife, mentioned that he thought I was, of course, referring to Boba Fett. I could not resist seeing if the legendary bounty hunter was the source of any…

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Five Days of Gatewood, Day Five: Watch those teeth. (NSFW)

One of the first things I learned about putting people’s junk in your face was: watch the teeth. And that’s pretty much true for most people. Some people, however, love the teeth. in this case, due to my extra perky canines and concerns about violating the integrity of the prophylactic, I avoided any vigorous biteyness. But I…

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SPPP Sneek Peek!

By Shilo McCabe

The lovely and talented Shilo McCabe, ably assisted by the badass Airial Clark, accosted me violently in an alley in San Francisco this summer, threatened me with …um…knifes and…stuff…and insisted that I pose for Shilo’s Sex Positive Photo Project.   NOTE: Most of the previous sentence isn’t true.   What IS true is that I DID pose for the…

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Photo by Shilo, and Happy Hump Day :-)

  So Shilo McCabe, she of the bad-ass hanky code flowers,  the Sex Positive Photo Project and general awesomeness, came and hung out with me, brought along the radtastic  Airial and by my sista Sylvia. Much awesome ensued. And we took some pictures, so here’s one… Here’s hoping you have a Happy Hump Day!      …

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HNT: Sunlight’s Stripey Stockings.

  I haven’t submitted an HNT in FOREVER…I’d have to do epic research to figure out when the last one was!   But I took a few pictures this afternoon. One was a special version, for a special person (waves to The Dominant Guy) but I took ths one too, suitable for public consumption. Then…

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My fat black ass.

Despite having no lack of photos of myself in compromising positions, every time I do a fetish shoot, or one where I’m gonna have my big old butt in the wind, I become a bit apprehensive. Yeah yeah fat is flabulous etc. But like anyone, I can be a little self-conscious when it comes to…

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Rope & Ash: photography by Michele Serchuk.

I can’t say enough about how much I admire Michele Serchuk’s work. A creator of iconic photography, she has shitloads of photos that every kinkster & pervert has seen so often they become almost ubiquitous as benchmarks for kink, fetish and BDSM. So when she offered me the opportunity to work with her, I squeaked…

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“Ssssh…” Part II

“SomebodybettercovermymouthbecauseI’mabouttocome…” I think this photo, by the lovely and talented Stacie Joy, was snapped right as I stuttered out that request and observation. I found myself in the rather unique situation of being in bed with two dominant men and a photographer. As much as people don’t believe this of me, my actual history of…

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Better? Or worse?

I’m on the morning of the last of my performances of the revival of 69Stories. Interestingly, this revival is a format somewhat different than previous iterations. More interactive. More real-time. Riskier-feeling for me, but it seems to work well. The riskiness I experience is this: when I tell the stories, a part of me is…

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