When I know I don’t know.

Some things are indelible in the soft clay of my heart. Those moments of connection with someone where it isn’t about verbal communication. Where the lips the teeth the tip of the tongue aren’t in play because you look at someone and you get volumes of information instantaneously. I love this moment. I have them…

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HNT ~ here, near tears.

An odd emotionally whipsaw day curls into the lap of a busy night and once we landed it unraveled a bit. I’m  not willing to cry in front of everyone yet…but you don’t worry your pretty little heads none…the lachrymal letdown continues. It is, after all, only half-nekkid Thursday, right?

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One Pony Trick.

There are lots of kinks I’ve not fully explored.  Some because of a lack of interest, some because they are a bit esoteric or don’t really grab me or some because I just haven’t gotten around to them.   As a performer, role-playing is a fairly easy BDSM scenario for me to embrace. Pretending and…

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My Epic “Best Of” Craig’s List Post.

email this posting to a friend best of craigslist > SF bay area > The Prize for the LAMEST Booty Call I have endured goes to…. Originally Posted: Thu, 6 May 13:39 PDT The Prize for the LAMEST Booty Call I have endured goes to… Date: 2004-05-06, 1:39PM PDT I suppose it is my fault…

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In God’s Hands.

Today I felt the browning and curling and writhing death of a part of me that does this cyclically. The circle of life death lives and dies. I watch this with a sadness I have felt over a dozen years over a dozen dozen lifetimes, and every time, it hurts. But this time I have…

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Taking my picture.

Despite the fact that I’ve been in front of the camera professionally since the age of 5, I am always apprehensive about photography. I fear I’ll look goofy, or that the person taking the picture will somehow look at me in a way that doesn’t capture the “real me” or worse yet, that the “real…

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Race Play Interview – Part IV (Conclusion)

Well this is the wrap up! By Ganesha’s prehensile trunk and gorgeous plump belleh, this shit is EPIC. Thanks for reading along, and thank you Andrea Plaid for her remarkably open mind and thoughtful questions. If you are just jumping in, STOP. STOP RIGHT NOW! I fuckin’ mean it and go back and read the…

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Race Play Interview – Part III

This is a continuation from Part I and Part Two, and it is hella important that you read ’em in order…so hop to it! Andrea Plaid: Next question (and we sorta touched on this): Why do you think communities of color, specifically Black communities, feel the need to police their desires…to the point they won’t…

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Art Imtates Life.

Many years ago I took a class called “Writers Who Act.” The class was taught by the BLOODYFUCKINGAMAZING Anne Galjour. She is one of my greatest inspirations in performance, in theater, and in life, for lots of reasons into which I’ll not go into right now. In the course of this class, I started telling…

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Race Play Interview – Part II

This is part Two of an interview in which I recently took part…best to read part I first, or you’ll be all “Huuh? Whaaaaa?” Andrea Plaid: That’s what folks got tripped up about with the Ciara/JT vid. Mo: Look, I have never lived in the South on a plantation and felt the terror of my…

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