It would have been enough.

Since I taught a class on Tact and Diplomacy and yadda yadda and talked about shit like “gracious communication” and using “I feel” and “I think” statements, I sure as hell better practice what I preach. Or at least give it my best fucking shot. I was proud that, despite the occasional disappointment, fleeting moment…

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Dark Odyssey, day two…

Day two of the Dark Odyssey event and frankly, it is pretty great. My sleep patterns are crazy! My dreams are even crazier…last night involved a complicated play involving a friend of mine attempting to fuck me up the ass behind every door in the room of a 56 room Victorian mansion..yesh. It was, at…

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HNT ~ Nekkid in the Capital.

I’m in Washington DC again…this time I doubt I’ll see the First Couple dance. I am sure the Obamas keep their kinky play in the bedroom. I am presenting a couple of classes here at the Dark Odyssey event…which should be cool. But today…today was long. Grueling. Challenging. But right now I get to do…

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FLESHBOTTED!! Hellz yeah, bitches!!

Sex Blog Roundup: Little Secrets   By AlwaysArousedGirl, 1:00 PM on Tue Feb 10 2009   How dull would life be if we didn’t all keep a few little secrets safe from even our closest friends? Read on with AlwaysArousedGirl and find out what our favorite naughty bloggers are hiding. Don’t tell! There are some…

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Dungeon Wall-of-Blame: “Mom? Can I borrow your Collar?”

I know so many kinky folks who raise their kids in wonderful loving,  supportive homes.  Homes where there just hapen to be parents who are kinky. I know a few of those people who have had their kink used against them in custody cases, and that is is a grim fact of life. As long…

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Who’s Your Daddy?

Styles of dominance are as varied as chili recipes. OK. SO maybe that is a kind of fucked up analogy, but whatever. I like chili. But some people like the pure old-school shit: the meat, the whole meat, and nothing but the meat. And some people will not accept chili that does not have the…

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Beaten.

One of the more striking things about being struck…and struck repeatedly…is how fluid time becomes, how simple it is to take leave of your senses and allow your body’s chemical reactions to rule the day. Rarely do I do well in a BDSM scene when someone comes at me with their energy at a raging…

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Please don’t hurt the…masochist???

I value the relationships I have formed within the BDSM community. It is not only that we have the commonality of kink, it is that being a pervert means that you smite the artifice of sexual Gerrymandering. I am living a charmed life in some ways. My lifestyle as an “Out Kinky Pervert” actually was…

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SUPPORT DAVID W. OGDEN!

I’ll make this short. If you read my blog, the likelihood is that you dig the idea that we have the right to fuck the way we want, and that choice is important. The nominee for Assistant Attorney General, David W. Ogden,  is coming under fire for defending the right for choice, the right to…

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