WTF Wednesday: Hey pornographers: enough with the spitting already.

I can’t pop in a pr0n DVD or idly browse a website without a secret lurking terror.   I don’t know if you have noticed this, but I sure have.    Spitting.     Spitting EVERYWHERE.      IN the face, ON the schvantz, UP the keister, all over the damned place.     What is a…

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For my FetLife Friend.

So may times over the years I see submissives fall “prey” to “predators” or fall  “victim” of a bad dom or exploitative wolf in leather clothing.   I recently made the online acquaintance of a woman who was going from an online to a real-time dominant / submissive (d/s) relationship.   The fairytale for which…

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Congratulations, Graduates of Journeyman III Academy!

A hearty Huzzah!!! To those graduating today from the Journeyman III Academy. Your commitment and dedication is an inspiration to those in the Leather Lifestyle who strive to better themselves and better serve. I am proud to call many of you friends and a few of you Family. There are many paths to choose when…

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Just another day in Pervidice.

Though I rarely take things for granted, I do occasionally fail to step back and see the larger surreal picture. Seurat-a-tat-tat when I DO step back I inhale the myriad blots and splotches that resolve into a story told in moments. Recovering from the abrupt rape of a badly decomposed molar was complicated by goddess-awful…

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“Kiss My Boots.”

I often hear people talk about pivotal moments in their lives with longing regret: wishing they’d known then how critical a moment this fleeting juncture would be. I have had the pleasure / terror of Total In-The-Moment-Surety that something was going to be a life altering event even as it happened. The unifying theme is…

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WTF Wednesday: Rope Bondage

There are 47 reasons, on any given day, why kinky stuff gets my jeebies heebied. One of the things I can enjoy, regardless of my emotional connection to my play partner, is rope bondage. There are many aspects of kink that are intensely personal for me, things that get right into my head and places…

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GILFs

I have decided that Christianity has the unsexiest god fucking IMAGINABLE. Seriously. Even his son isn’t all that. Sure, the walking on water thing is kind of cool, it would probably have gotten the girls kinda hot back in Galilee and all. OK, Goth chicks could SO be into Jesus what with the stigmata and…

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(Mind)Fucking it up. Again.

  I just spoke with Robin, the delightful Programming Director of The Exiles.  I’m stoked to have been invited back to present a class for them!   Especially after The Incident at the last class.   Oy vey ish meir.     Um, anyway, yeah!     This is going to be the “Taboos: Playing…

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