A Bad Dream

Several hundred people are gathered in the main amphitheater and the chatter is low, solemn, but cheerful. Ownership Day is usually a really big celebration, the day when owners are permitted to take their slaves to collar in public ceremony and submissives are acknowledged as being part of a household or in the collar of…

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Marked inside.

Yesterday afternoon I was walking through the lobby of the Beyond Leather host hotel here in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. Not long after teaching my second class of the day, I found myself in an intriguing exchange with a dashing salt-and-pepper haired gentleman of British extraction. He was holding my hand and pressing his lips to the back of…

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HNT ~ Loving Myself.

  In Florida for the Beyond Leather convention…I am loving this hotel room. a mini-suite, and the weekend unrolls before me. All potential. All maybes. I had the funnest sensation as I was leaving my home on Tuesday evening. One that often happens  when  I go away on a trip.  That I will not be the…

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Spinning into control.

I love it when I am surprised. I week or so ago I had a bit of glumness because a big event was looming, and though I was looking forward to a pending playdate, it is best, I find, not to place too many eggs in these baskets. Life happens, things change, and often Conventions…

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The FatGirl Pervert Rants.

I’m fat. (For the record: I do not use / identify with the euphemism BBW (Big Beautiful Woman). I respect those who do, it just isn’t my choice. “Large,” “Plus-Sized,” “Big” are terms I occasionally use. For me, I prefer fat.) I am, unsurprisingly, ambivalent about it. There isn’t a whole lot of acceptance around…

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When I know I don’t know.

Some things are indelible in the soft clay of my heart. Those moments of connection with someone where it isn’t about verbal communication. Where the lips the teeth the tip of the tongue aren’t in play because you look at someone and you get volumes of information instantaneously. I love this moment. I have them…

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Sugasm #163

Sugasm #163 April 16th, 2009 by Vixen | Updated: April 17th, 2009 The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #164? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks Another…

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HNT ~ here, near tears.

An odd emotionally whipsaw day curls into the lap of a busy night and once we landed it unraveled a bit. I’m  not willing to cry in front of everyone yet…but you don’t worry your pretty little heads none…the lachrymal letdown continues. It is, after all, only half-nekkid Thursday, right?

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One Pony Trick.

There are lots of kinks I’ve not fully explored.  Some because of a lack of interest, some because they are a bit esoteric or don’t really grab me or some because I just haven’t gotten around to them.   As a performer, role-playing is a fairly easy BDSM scenario for me to embrace. Pretending and…

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