Please. Don’t do me any favors.

February 25, 2009 |

I have been exchanging emails with a dominant I had approached with the intent of getting to know him a little better. I got several brushbacks. He found me “intimidating” somehow…but never elaborated on what that meant. He doesn’t play casually, because his play partners tend to “fall for him” so rather than risk that,…

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For my FetLife Friend.

October 20, 2008 |

So may times over the years I see submissives fall “prey” to “predators” or fall  “victim” of a bad dom or exploitative wolf in leather clothing.   I recently made the online acquaintance of a woman who was going from an online to a real-time dominant / submissive (d/s) relationship.   The fairytale for which…

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