Sunday Sexytime Story “I thought it would be OK!”
May 3, 2009
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this was topic of coversation between my kink folks and my aware kink but still very “vanilla” we were wondering the same thing. why do people assume that because we are kinky that we are going want/your kind.
and now thanks go you I have answer will not completely answer the question but will give us a place to jump
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Jen Isis Reply:
May 3rd, 2009 at 7:48 pm
But pizza guy said “hey man, it’s not fucking ok”, so it sounds like he didn’t assume it was ok, right? Or it was just jason who thought it was ok?
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mollena Reply:
May 4th, 2009 at 7:50 am
Indeed…but the whole situation kind of felt weirdly like a setup to me. My eventual take was that The Pizza Guy, having regaled his friends with tales of the kinky freak he was fucking had effectively set up a situation where his friend could well assume I was down for anything and lacked boundaries.
He never fully copped to it, even 3+ years later after we were dating, but he never denied it either
Peace.
Mollena
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Comment by Princess lilbabigirl — May 3, 2009 @ 4:56 pm
With that voice, you could read the pizza menu and I would listen!
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Comment by caroline — May 4, 2009 @ 8:21 am
i haven’t been in such a position myself,but for as long as i can remember i tell people to just ask me. i think it’s really unfair to assume that because we are kinky we’re just going to want anyone.
~sigh~
dumb boy’s are dumb lol.
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Comment by Utica — May 6, 2009 @ 7:00 am