Been a while so here we go with a simple little reminder to Keep It Simple, Stupid.
Kissing is awesome. Awesome and underrated. I know I’m not alone in feeling that the intimacy of a kiss is a profound one. Back when I used to occasionally go in for casual hook-ups, it wasn’t unusual of the kissing to be either non-existent or perfunctory, at best, with that seemingly silly mode of sensual communication stowed in favor of getting down to fucking.
Which is delightful. I’m a fan of the fuck. However I’m also a fan of the depth of intimacy it takes to deeply kiss someone, to focus on that, and I am a SuperFan of open-eye kissing. I know it might sound odd or far-fetched but I have had times where I have actually had full-body orgasmic response from a good make-out session, and though it might be surprising to the person with whom I’m making out, in all of my career I’ve only received one complaint, and that guy can go fuck himself.
…but I digress…
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After epic fail three times trying to update this shit finally here it is.
Jeeze.
I’m upgrading my ^%$# AT& service so I don’t have to go through this shit any more.
Dag, Yo.
Come on in, y’all.
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Fireplay can be a dramatic and sexy aspect of BDSM play. Whether you are doing a quick swipe of someone’s skin with flash-paper or using some high falutin’ fire floggers, it is certainly an eye-catching and showy scene.
Unless you set everything on fire.
I was recently reminded of a scene I saw many years ago where a bottom, bring topped by four domly types, was in the midst of a serious piercing scene and one of the sadistic bastards sprayed the gal to saturated, with alcohol, to make the needles sting even more.
Then someone else had the bright idea of running current through the needles with a violet wand. (more…)
Some things are mixed blessings.
I orgasm pretty very easily, and come pretty goddamn hard, and from all manner of stimuli.
Whether it is from making out, being spanked, the tightening of a rope coupled with That Look, or a slap to the face or an extended club remix session of attentive nipple stimulation or being forced to lick a particularly sexy boot or…
Um. Shit. What was my point…? Right right.
Orgasming.
The wintastic @AvaAmnesia commented on Twitter about orgasms and orgasming easily being a drawback. I was immediately reminded of a rather disconcerting situation so I tucked it away for a SMSS.
Here it is, a shout out to my hair-trigger clit sisters
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As I sort frantically through a metric fuckton of email on FetLife, follow up on some proposals for BDSM classes, update this here blog with new class listings, I was craving a snack.
I know. The superglam life of the Executive Pervert is a dizzying dance of desire…
Anyway, so yeah. Popcorn was the clarion cry.
I made some.
Then I realized that the vast majority of you might not be aware of one of my secret powers.
So I am sharing it with you.
Let me show you it. (more…)
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