Jul 062011

If you are late to the game, you may have missed my recent lifestyle shift! I’m a wandering troubadour at present, singing my songs of perversion all over the place. SO here are a few places where you will be able to find me in the next month and a half, and see what I’m up to!

Thursday July 7th, 2011 7:00 PM ~ 9:00 PM

Purple Passion, NYC NY

211 West 20th St New York, NY 10011

I’ll be presenting “Negotiation for the Hopelessly Shy & Terribly Awkward” (and who among us ins’t that person now and then?)


I will be hanging out on the coattails of Lee Harrington in Ohio!  He’s conducting a Rope Bondage Intensive on July 23rd that you should check out.  This is a straight-up plug, since I’m not there in any official capacity. Lee and I are working on a book that’ll be out sometime in early 2012, and so we are aligning our collaboration with his visit there.


I am presenting at The Floating World, July 29th ~ 31st in Edison, New Jersey


Looking forward to the SF Leathermen’s Discussion Group

August 24th, 2011 7:30 ~ 9:30

Blow Buddies

933 Harrison Street, San Francisco, CA
I am so stoked to be back in SF and presenting for the SF Leathermen’s Discussion group!   This is the Taboo Play & Working Through Extremes class, which is one of my personal faves. I am delighted to have been invited to present to the SFLDG.

M/S Conference 2011

September 2nd ~ 5th, 2011, Washington DC.

…there’s lots more after that but for now? That’ll do pig. That’ll do. 

Aug 212009
What kills me is that no less than SEVEN peoplethough I was Q at Beyond Leather. Um....

What kills me is that no less than SEVEN people thought I was Q at Beyond Leather. Um....

On the way to Floating World I ran into a couple of moments of Zen. The first was cool: I ran into the charming and dope ass Q in the terminal. Q was on the way to the Butch Voices Conference, even as I was headed back east for Floating World. We chatted a bit in the terminal and I marveled at how lovely it is to have friends and have paths cross in such synchronous way.

Another moment of Zen where I’d royally fucked up a plane reservation. See, Continental lets you hold a reservation for 24 hours and cancel with no harm, no foul before 24 hours when your booking. And hey, if you happen to find a cheaper fare on, say, Air Tran, you can run back all “BOOYA in your FACE Continental, I got the cheaper fare!!”  then wriggle in your chair like you da fuckin’ MAN!

Buuuut of course if you forget to cancel the Continental ticket you instead are whinging on the phone to Air Tran and taking a $75 hit as a Dork Tax.

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Jul 172009

I was lamenting the fact that I had not only the bitterness of not being able to perform in the run of the musical I’d been rehearsing for months, but also how that had precluded my being able to take a presenter’s berth for few BDSM events.

Several I’d really been interested in I hadn’t even applied for, and why would I? I was busy busy.

Then, of course…not so much.

But The Lord (Ganesha, of course!) moves in mysterious ways, and I am tickled to announce that, in the past 3 days, I have been offered two spots at two different events on two different coasts!

My East Coast pervs, you ain’t rid of me yet because my happy black ass (soon to be my sweaty black ass…Jersey!?? in SUMMERTIME?!) will be at Floating World in August!

The Floating World 2009

I’ll be talking about Taboo Play, Playing with Race, and Role-Playing. Lots of fun, funky, fucked-up topics, for sure.

Then over Folsom Weekend and closer to home, I’ll be at one of the events nearest and dearest to my heart, the SM Odyssey Folsom Fringe.

SM Odyssey

Not sure what I’ll be on about at that event. Stay tuned!

Will I see you here or there? Will I see you everywhere?