Long time no casting, podpeople! We are jumping back in with a swingin’ sack of new episodes! This funky fresh epi deals with random stuff, the importance of brownies when I have to placate an angry uterus, and the finer points of culinary torture. Would YOU, as a sadist, force someone to consume a food…

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Our Very Special New York Podcasts is in three parts! This is Part One. J.P. was in The City for work and we hung out, rolling downtown nomming snax from some of my very fave places (Vanessa’s Dumplings,Momofuku Milk Bar Store, Molly’s Cupcakes) and wound up having some delicious Vietnamese food before settling in for…

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  We start off with some ball wedging (hey, it makes sense of you’ve listened to the previous episodes!) and we jump back into telling / showing / sharing the intricacies of BDSM without losing the realness, the authenticity? I describe a wonderful moment I witnessed between a master and slave, and how lovely it…

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The “Conflict Continues” in the BATTLE ROYALE, we learn my sadness & discomfort apparently amuses J.P. Shocking. What are the limitations to and freedoms within performing BDSM vs. doing a scene vs. sharing one’s interactions with a dungeon of kinksters vs. an audience…is the audience intrinsically voyeuristic? How can one capture the ephemeral nature of…

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This next series of posts…folks, it is ALL over the damn map! We had a whole bunch of questions and topics and shit. Somehow, the weather became a fasci-fucking-nating topic. I am serious, y’all. I mentioned that I had legendary Evil Jewish Lesbian Landlady and writer and stuff Laura Antoniou on Podcast #10, and J.P.…

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OMG it is the famous LAURA ANTONIOU! Not only a legendary scion of The Middle Aged Guard, but also an all around mensch as one half of the Dynamic Duo that are The Evil Jewish Lesbian Landladies. Laura’s classic work, The Marketplace, celebrates its 20th anniversary tomorrow! And if you]re in NYC, you can come…

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And here it is! Segment six of the EPIC series on transparency! You probably wanna roll back to Episode 9, and then listen to 9A, 9B, 9C and 9D. Or just go back and listen to ’em all. You can still be a way cool early adopter, yo! Transparency! Yeah, sometimes, you are transparent where…

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Holy Hand Grenade Of Antioch, we are STILL. AT. IT! Transparency and opacity online. Does the “Walled Garden ” of Fetlife keep people from sharing their process in a broader context? Is it safe for sadists and dominant types to bare their shit to the public? Especially when their words could very well leave all…

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HOLYCRAPAWESOME it is Episode 9C: part four of a six section extended club mix in which J.P. and I continue to dissect and chew on the multiple manifestations of transparency in Power Exchange dynamics, and in the larger world of BDSM. Transparency in interactions: what we see people doing in the kink / Leather /…

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