Sober.

Not a word I’d ever thought would apply to me. Not a word that necessarily connotes the joy with which I use it today. Not a word that can full explain what sobriety has done for me. But it will have to do. Praise god. Praise the Lord I’m sober today. As I sit in…

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HNT ~ makeup and Vicodin.

Last night I was fortunate to spend the evening doing a shoot for the Folsom Street Fair Poster. I’m so grateful and straight up THRILLED to have been invited to participate! Sadly, 5 days of tooth pain, a really deep root-canal and 3 days of MORE pain made it hard to struggle through. Chin up, buttercup, carry…

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Looking onward to International Ms. Leather! Can you help?

I am running for International Ms. Leather, which is an amazing gathering happening from April 15th – 18th here in foggy San Francisco! In addition to the contest itself, which is a way for the Leather Community to come together, celebrate our pride in Leather and award the “International Ms. Leather” sash to a contestant,…

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HNT: Yeti & Titties.

Been a long time, been a long time, been a long lonely lonely lonely lonely lone-leh time… Someone who has no business telling me what to do insisted that he was tired of seeing me hiding my tits behind my arm or a convenient stuffed heffalumnp, and he wanted to “…see all that shit, goddammmit.”…

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Not Yo’ Mama’s Tea Party! THIS SUNDAY!

We have Art from Lochai…Bellydancing from Mistress Selina Raven…Rope Bondage and a Tea Ceremony by Madame Butterfly…penitential spankings from Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Sister Mable Syrup and Rubber Chicken Spankings from Froghole The Clown…Tea Demonstrations and rope bondage demos… beautiful harp music provided LIVE by Ms. Beth Powell…and SO much more cool shit! Silent Auction…

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Coming Soon, from Greenery Press…

As it happened, Greenery Press’ Editrix In Chief felt that “race play” was too narrow-focused a topic for the parameters of a “Toybag Guide.” series. That book’ll have to wait! SO, there was a compromise…

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The Pervert Says: “Thank You.”

Sometimes you gotta get a little pop in the face that reminds you of what is important, and how much you take for granted. I recently took a moment to dig up some folks I’d not heard from in a while. Social Media is a great way to soft-connect with long lost buddies. I am…

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Shoutbacks & Shoutouts & Cupcakes.

I’m always a little “!!!?!?!?!?” when people mention, quote or talk about me in their writings.  But it makes all the gut-wrenching puling moaning and late night Waaaaaaaaaambulance calls worth it, if someone else can share in it with me. My entree to sex was awesome: I was 15, he was 18, we fucked all…

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Half Full.

I need approval. Someone patting me on the head and giving me that “Good Girl.” Can melt away the thickest glacier of self-loathing and dissolve the greasiest oil-slick of self-imposed reflexive hatred. I clearly recall, with fondness, having resentment, anger, self-pity, even rage, wiped away by my dominant telling me how good job I was…

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