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What I’m not saying.
The past month or so has been difficult in ways I’ve not seen before, and to a degree I’ve not previously experienced. I’m used to doing my processing out loud, and it has helped me immensely. I thrive on tossing up my inner workings, letting them come to light, welcoming others to join the…
Read MoreAnd now, a word from “The Man.”
I’m deeply honored and pleased (and yeah, a little turned on) to re-post, with permission, a really remarkable essay on race play. Shock #1, it isn’t by me. Less shocking, it is about me, kinda. Shockingest of all? It is an essay written from  the top’s experience in doing race play.  My…
Read MoreAnd Now a Word From “The Man.”
I’m deeply honored and pleased (and yeah, a little turned on) to re-post, with permission, a really remarkable essay on race play. Shock #1, it isn’t by me. Less shocking, it is about me, kinda. Shockingest of all? It is an essay written from  the top’s experience in doing race play.  My…
Read MoreI’m rarely a “top” but I’m in the top 100!
I’m chuffed to have received recognition for my little blog! Thanks to Rori for compiling another year’s worth of sex bloggery goodness! Here’s the Top 100 Sex Bloggers according to the readers of the sexiest blogs in the internets! Guy New York (@quickiesnewyork) and The Dirty Gentleman from Quickies in New York Charlotte Times…
Read MoreDream.
I had class this morning at the M/S conference. 9:00 AM is a cruel injustice if you expect  night owls to be coherent. Night owls on Pacific Time are even more tortured. But I made it through. People shared some very painful stories, and asked some very wonderful questions, and it was well worth the agony of early…
Read MoreSubmission: better than “A gift.”
I think about Various & Sundry Things and Stuff all of the time. And I question pretty much everything. This includes a great deal of thought about kinky stuff. Since my first explorations of Leather and BDSM via books and online bulletin boards, I’ve read and listened to a great many ideas. And there are…
Read MoreLeft unsaid.
I have had a fucking crazy past month or so. And despite my usual puking all over the place about pretty much everything that happens, I’ve been oddly reluctant to post. There are several reasons for this. First and foremost? I was reluctant to talk about some situations while I was still embroiled in…
Read MoreTo the Attendees of IMsL 2011: Thank You For Making A Difference.
This is a quick note to give a heartfelt hearty THANK YOU to the friends family and folks in the audience tonight at International Ms Leather. It was a very scary decision for me to share my story and to ask for others to stand or raise a hand with me as survivors. And the remaining people…
Read MoreThe Scent of a Woman (Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love my Snatch)
I swear on Ganesha’s mighty trunk I am really pushing myself on this one. Leave it to The Dominant Guy to bring up and toy with one of my more…sensitive personal areas. This is going to get punny in a second because the area I’m talking about is the DMZ. The punanni, snatch, cunt,…
Read MoreNo, really. I’m good.
I typically become profoundly uncomfortable when I cannot craft my thoughts or feelings into words. This becomes especially irritating when someone asks me how I am feeling, what I am thinking, and I am nonplussed and vacant, ready with neither quick quip nor reasoned, seasoned response. The capacity to think quickly and clearly is one…
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