It is a busy end to a busy year!
My first podcast for Erotic Awakening has hit the ground running!
Sit back, relax, take your socks off, get naked, grab a snack and some lotion and ….er….or just listen to my first installment of The Negress Natters on EA!
It is holiday time and all of that shit. Â So lotsof you will be lounging around wondering what to do with all of that free time.
Still have some bandwidth…?Â
Perhaps you’d like to read part Two-of-Two in my “Seven Random Suggections Series!”
…from the article…
Be realistic, honest andÂ transparentÂ about your (emotional, physical, mental & spiritual) needs & motives
It is very tempting to start submitting before you even submit. When faced with the prospect of a potential dominant, it can seem like youâ€™ve finally, finally found the pot of gold at the end of the leather rainbow! As the submissive, itâ€™s your duty to adhere to the needs, wants and desires of that potential dominant, right? I mean, you gotta prove yourself worthy of them and their dominance!Â Hold on tiger. If you donâ€™t advocate for yourself…who exactly is going to do it?Â If you do not step up to the plate when negotiating your D/S or M/S relationship, youâ€™re fucking yourself over, big time. Plain and simple.