BDSM
Not so goddamned fast….
There is little within the BDSM and Leather community circles that I take seriously serious, and that is not because I am irreverent about everything. OK well maybe it is, a bit. And maybe it is because fringe communities so often be takin’ so much so got-dammed seriously, I do not see that…
Read MoreStockholm Pride: True Unity!
I was invited to Stockholm to speak on BDSM at Camp WISH and at Stockholm Pride. Amazing honors, incredible women. Some trying obstacles in my own life, but so much learned. I’ve made some new friends I am pretty sure I will have in my life for a while to come. And I love, love…
Read MoreBetter? Or worse?
I’m on the morning of the last of my performances of the revival of 69Stories. Interestingly, this revival is a format somewhat different than previous iterations. More interactive. More real-time. Riskier-feeling for me, but it seems to work well. The riskiness I experience is this: when I tell the stories, a part of me is…
Read MoreIMsL2010: Monthly Wrap-Up.
It has been a month since the International Ms Leather contest. One month ago today, I was in a dazed haze, worrying about the opening number, freaking out about the interview, praying I wouldn’t completely melt down before the weekend was over. Thanks to Glenda, tomo, Ms. Rhonda and Levi for pulling together a stellar…
Read MoreHNT: Catharsis.
A couple of weeks ago my full-time employment-centric lifestyle evaporated, much more quickly that I thought would be the case in my life. That same week I received word that my roomie, who is awesome, was moving out as she and her girlfriend had found a place. All this as I was returning from a…
Read More‘Eclipse’ Party at The Citadel THIS FRIDAY!
ECLIPSE Women & TransFolk Play party! Friday, March 5 2010 8:00PM – 1:00AM Hosted by Ms. Cat & Ajax Friday, March 5th 8pm-1am at the SF Citadel Admission: $25 ECLIPSE IS BACK! If you haven’t been to an Eclipse party – what are you waiting for? Eclipse is a powerful gathering of Women and Trans…
Read MoreSM Odyssey Class tomorrow!
Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy with Mollena Williams Where: smOdyssey Class room is at 1725 De la Cruz, Suite #5,Santa Clara, CA View Larger Map When: Tuesday February 23, 2010 Time: 7:00pm – 9:00pm Cost: $10.00 members of smOdyssey, Inc- $15.00 non-members Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy…
Read More“Vanilla” Bigotry.
I love perverted sex. In fact, some of the perverted sex I love the most is considered too fucked up for public consumption by other kinky people. I love kinky people. The community, warts and all, is a home for me. Â And like any extended weird family, we have our disagreements. I know for a…
Read MorePOC @ LLC! Tell your story ASAP!
I am deeply honored and delighted to have been invited to present and share at the Leather Leadership Conference XIV this April 9th-11th , in Detroit, Michigan! I am sure some of you will be in attendance, but I know that not everyone can do so. I’m asking for your input, you thoughts, and your…
Read MoreAsk The Negress: Q & A. To the submissives…
Q: What tips do you think all submissives need to hear, in your experience? from formspring.me … courtesy of Nadia West Take. Your. Time. BDSM isn’t going anywhere. You don’t have to prove anything to anyone, and waiting is just fine. Plunging in headfirst is awesome, until it isn’t. Think of it this way: sure,…
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