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Bad Submissive.
Thick skin yet sensitive. Ably shielded yet vulnerable. How the fuck are we supposed to function as people, and as submissive people, yet remain vulnerable enough to let others see who we can be when we are in that headspace? These days, I have brief, rare, small glimpses into being submissive. But the rough lumpish…
Read MoreHow to Guarantee I Won’t Date You.
I received this solicitation on a BDSM dating site. And I quote…. Master[REDACTED] Age: 37 Gender: Man Location: New Hampshire, United States Message: Hi babe :) I like what you have to say in your profile sugar :) LOL I’m a Dom looking for a slave whore to do what ever I want her to…
Read MoreSo, Minx, A Negress and some RopeDude walk into a bar…
Yay! Gray’s put up the Second part o’ the podcast he, CunningMinx and moi did a few weeks back. The first part is here. I hear it is interesting. In case you don’t know, GrayDancer is one of them there RopeDuds and has the Ropecast. And the Lovely and Talented CunningMinx is the proprietress of…
Read MoreWhen dominants fuck up.
Yet another thought provoking and moving post from CoyoteToo. I swear, some days I wonder is this man the only male-identified dominant writing about their emotional journey on the net? Seriously, if you know of another, please clue me in the comments here. :-) Anyway, he posted something today and you should read all of…
Read MoreTONIGHT! I’ll be on the Radio!
Yep! Tune in tonight between 9:00 PM and 10:00 PM PST for my appearance on  Sexploration with Monika! We’ll be talking about cool fun stuff, like kink, being a Titleholder, performing, perversion, boobs, whatever…so you certainly should tune in! You can click through to the link above, or use an actual radio (gasp!) and tune…
Read MoreTriple Douchebaggery, Rod Jetton Style
Ugh. Republicans. AGAIN with the sex scandals!! OK, to be fair, that is certainly a blanket statement, and I shouldn’t be so flippant. ALL public figures get themselves into sexual loggerheads, right? And hell, my ex, Jack, was a registered Republican and I’ve certainly taken a few tumbles with conservative types. Shit, I even had…
Read MoreWhy Submission ≠Gift.
I don’t mind tropes. Sometimes, phrases that are often used are that way because they withstand the test of time. I don’t’ even have to finish the following sentences and you know the balance… “You can’t judge a book by…” “You can lead a horse to water but you can’t…” “Good things come to those…
Read More“A Single Gal’s Manifesto” by Sheryn B.
A woman I greatly admire and who I recognized as being one of those soul-family people when we first met recently wrote a blog post on FetLife. It kind of is the zenith to my recent post’s nadir-gazing miasma, and I’ve obtained her permission to repost it here.
Read MoreA Lust of Shakespearean Dimensions.
“The Taming of the Shrew” is a problematic show. The main plotline revolving, as it does, around a woman being forced into an arranged marriage to an apparent loony who then proceeds to beat and starve her into submission. Literally. There is another plotline but that shit is boring and I don’t give a motherfuck…
Read MoreLess is More.
This one is the total fault of @sexisfuncoochie. That’s what you get for asking an innocent question. OK. Um, Mo here, talking about being (mostly) mono in a poly world. And by “poly world†I mean the BDSM community as I experience it. I’ve been around a while, and I am not a shrinking violet…
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