KNOW YOUR NEGRO III: ADVANCED EDITION!

KNOW YOUR NEGROS III: Advanced Edition. Yep, it is true…there aren’t all THAT many brown faces in the Kink / Leather world. But hey, we are working on it. Interestingly, though there aren’t that many of us we are mistaken for one another….er…a lot, actually. Embarrassingly so. So I tried to help by posting PSAs. But now……

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The 2012 “PLAYING WELL WITH OTHERS” Whistle Stop Tour!

http://www.gofundme.com/playingwellwithothers  After a few years in the making, “Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” is out!  To celebrate, we have planned an ambitious book tour: 16 cities in 21 days! We will be traversing the USA (and Vancouver) by train (and a few legs…

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My Demon is on NPR.

As a storyteller, there are several landmarks ya hit when telling that resonate. The first time with a big audience. That first time revealing something you’ve never told. The first time you perform at a national event. I’d hit all but two of my storytelling goals (at that time) when I received an e-mail from one of…

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FINAL FETFEST FINALITY!!

You have until MIDNIGHT TONIGHT…August 24th…to get in under the registration deadline!  Then you’re Shit Outta Luck!  And if you buy it and you use code “MOLLENA” you get an extra 10% off, you get to go to an awesome event, and maybe…just maybe…. you’ll see me running around dressed like a pony. So what the fuck…

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How You Know You Are On The Rag.

1) Experience Violent chocolate pudding craving. 2) Go on midnight pudding run in strange town. 3) Discover there is no pre-made pudding. 4) Buy milk, pudding mix & Lactaid pills so you can eat whole milk. 4A)…because FUCK SOY MILK I AM TIRED OF NOT HAVING THE REAL STUFF YOU BASTARD COLON!!

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This is today. Tomorrow will, I’m sure, be different.

There isn’t much grace or dignity in pouring out one’s guts all over the damn internet. I’m protective of my rough spots, mostly because I loathe the idea of The Haters smirking smugly at my difficulty. And also because it is pretty easy to look at someone’s life from the outside and assume they’re doing…

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Big Ups to TT and missed Qs!

I just spent an amaaaazing hour speaking with the lovely and talented Tristan Taormino! What a rush…sometimes, life becomes awesome and you get to talk with people who have motivated and inspired you in your own journey towards self-actualization. I’m tickled plum that I can be where I am today and talk with Tristan! Listen to the…

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CROSSPOST: CaptainAwkward gets real on sexual abuse.

This is a cross-post from a truly amazing blog. And it is vitally important for everyone to read it. It is especially important for those of us in the BDSM / Leather / Kink / AltSex communities to listen. Closely.   CaptainAwkward.com Advice. Staircase Wit. Faux Pas. Movies. #322 & #323 “My friend group has a…

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Pardon the wonk!

Thing’s will be a bit wonky for a little while as my site is being awesomeified! Here’s my travel & appearances calendar, in case you need to know when I’ll be in your town!  Please take a look at the book hitting your eyeballs in September: Playing Well with Others, the amazing book Lee Harrington and I wroted!…

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