Posts Tagged ‘kink’
Shoutbacks & Shoutouts & Cupcakes.
I’m always a little “!!!?!?!?!?” when people mention, quote or talk about me in their writings. But it makes all the gut-wrenching puling moaning and late night Waaaaaaaaaambulance calls worth it, if someone else can share in it with me. My entree to sex was awesome: I was 15, he was 18, we fucked all…
Read MoreThe Negress Natters: On BDSM & Race Play.
Look, Ma! New Tech! Welcome to what will probably be a new regular feature on The Perverted Negress! I can talk and you can listen and I don’t have to fucking type. What’s not to LOVE?! Check out the post on race play inspired by Jaki, who sent me a message on FetLife and then…
Read MoreDon’t let it slide.
Too many people, overwhelmingly on the bottom / submissive side of the kink equation, have a tendency to have a “let it slide†attitude. You know. You meet someone, they are very aggressive on the first date, move too fast, but because you emerge unscathed, you “let it slide.†Someone pushes a limit, but maybe…
Read MoreDIY Distress.
I started noticing it when I was in the late-stages of my first kink relationship. The late stage where the sex and kink die-off, you aren’t playing as often, maybe the thrill is gone or you’re in line with 2-5 other women waiting to be slotted in at the dominant’s convenience. And then it began.…
Read MoreSunday Morning Sexytime Story: TMI for AA
After epic fail three times trying to update this shit finally here it is. Jeeze. I’m upgrading my ^%$# AT& service so I don’t have to go through this shit any more. Dag, Yo. Come on in, y’all.
Read MoreFloating World, Flukey Weather.
On the way to Floating World I ran into a couple of moments of Zen. The first was cool: I ran into the charming and dope ass Q in the terminal. Q was on the way to the Butch Voices Conference, even as I was headed back east for Floating World. We chatted a bit in the…
Read MoreSugasm #171
Sugasm #171 The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #172? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks Kiss Me If You Can “I love the buildup, the discovery. 
Read MoreCatch me at Floating World!
I’m off late-night tonight on the red-eye to New Jersey. Gods help me…it pains my Harlem slash Upper East Side NY grrl heart to even type that… But it is for a good cause, since it’s gonna be just me and 1,199 other perverts for a weekend of depravity. Â
Read MoreHalf Nekkid Thursday: Fat Latex.
I’ve never worn this skirt. Sure, it is innocuous. Not even that clingy for a latex garment. But as a fat girl I don’t see latex modeled much for women my size. SO, I can never imagine myself in it, clingy and revealing or no. But I’m fucking tired of being self-conscious so I dragged…
Read MoreSunday Morning Sexytime Story: Special Edition!
This is a video of my inaugural performance at the Bawdy Storytelling in San Francisco. Curated by Dixie DeLaTour, the “Bawdy Storytelling“ is an awesome chance for people to share their lascivious lives and adult adventures! This is my first time sharing about some personal and controversial stuff in this context. Since it wasn’t a class,…
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