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Help me to help you on FetLife!
Some of you might know that FetLife, the hottest BDSM, Leather & Fetish Community on the goddamned PLANET is hiring. They are looking for a Community Manager. I am beyond ass-tinglingly thrilled to say I’m in the running for this position! I’ve a second interview in a little over a week, so I’m getting all…
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Meet International Mr. Leather 2010, Tyler McCormick!
A rather historic moment, as Tyler McCormick is the first FtM transgendered man to win International Leather! And before you trash about my being up on the block above him or some shit, Tyler’s in a wheelchair. I wouldn’t be that fucking rude! :-p I am looking forward to an exciting year!
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e[lust] #14
Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #14? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar…
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e[lust] #13
Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #14? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar…
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Better? Or worse?
I’m on the morning of the last of my performances of the revival of 69Stories. Interestingly, this revival is a format somewhat different than previous iterations. More interactive. More real-time. Riskier-feeling for me, but it seems to work well. The riskiness I experience is this: when I tell the stories, a part of me is…
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IMsL & IML + LRA = ….???
Yeah, so WTF? LOL?! ZOMG! I will TELL you WTF! PARTY TIME, CHICAGO! Join the LRA CHicago and the International Ms Leather Contest over the International Mr. Leather Weekend! Even if you can’t make iot to IML, you CAN come on down and meet me, making my first (but sure as hell not my last!) appearnce in…
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IMsL2010: Monthly Wrap-Up.
It has been a month since the International Ms Leather contest. One month ago today, I was in a dazed haze, worrying about the opening number, freaking out about the interview, praying I wouldn’t completely melt down before the weekend was over. Thanks to Glenda, tomo, Ms. Rhonda and Levi for pulling together a stellar…
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HNT: Ssssh….
I Â hate being told to shut up. It angers me to be told I talk too much. If I’m speaking, it means I have something to say, for fuck’s sake. But being rendered speechless, either via shock, or fear, or physical restraint? Yea, that. Thank you, please. And more, please. Maybe it’s the sensation of…
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The More Things Change…
I recently did a shoot with the amazingly talented Leland Carina…some of those photos are here. More to come as several projects get greenlighted. Anyway, in the course of the shoot I was talking about how as a kid, I’d had a headshot photo that was pretty silly and cute. Â I emulated it as best…
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Sneak Peek Pix!
The fucking RAD and AWESOME Leland Carina and the Magnificent Makeupista Jackie Backman got together with me in the basement of the Armory to help me make some photos tonight. Holy poop! Thanks for a really fun time, and for really beautiful images, ladies!
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HNT: Corset.
When I was in New York I managed to snag some camera time with Aeric Meredith-Goujon. Who is amazing, and awesome. I wanted to share today on HNT one of the photos from that shoot, because I am so self-conscious, usually, about photos of me. But yah, awesome photographers can do awesome things, and so…
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Playboy me, Baby!
I am thrilled to share a segment recently recorded with Chip Rowe for The Playboy Advisor! The full show is only available on Sirrius Radio, but the producers were kind enough to provide me with the audio for my segment, where I was given a few minutes to talk about my book! Mollena on The…
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Folsom Sneak Peek, Bitches!
Sneak Peek at the Folsom Street Fair 2010 Poster…peep it till I get spanked for putting it up ;-) Click Below, Peeps!
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Lifting My Voice.
Part of the process of running for International Ms Leather was coming up with a “Fantasy” segment. I had a small (dis)advantage as I’d already performed one for my run for Ms. SF Leather, and was satisfied with how that went. I decided, somewhat controversially (and against several recommendations,) to reproduce the performance verbatim for…
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International Ms Leather 2010, At Your Service.
More to follow…I leave for a week in Florida tomorrow morning. I have so many to thank, and I will, soon. To the Producers, The Judges, the AMAZING women with whom I ran, my sponsors, my supporters, My Leather Family, Patti my backstage Goddess and Tee, my Sister, thank you. Please meet my Sash Spouse,…
Read MoreAt 35000 feet.
I am learning to write in mid-air. I used to never be interested in doing so. I think it is good to have this desire blossoming. I have many flights in my future, and don’t foresee that slowing down any time soon. So…we write. I’m in first class tonight. And this is awesome. I took…
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e[lust] #11
From e[lust] …source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #12? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to…
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HNT ~ The Rescuer.
I’m spacey. Not like Kevin. Like outer. This is a well-established fact. So, this afternoon, on uncurling myself from the correspondence and phone calls, I made my way out into the afternoon sunlight only to find myself trapped. I was at The Hungarian’s house, and there is a little front porch that is gated, and…
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From ‘In The Flesh NYC’ … “Kiss My Boots”
Yay! For those who weren’t jammed the FUCK into the Happy Ending Lounge for In The Flesh NYC on March 18th, your time has come! I performed one of my favorite stories there. You can read it here and you can watch it below. Here is the first part… …and here is the rest! Enjoy!…
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“Dear James…” a letter to someone who Was.
Dear Jim… It is HIGHLY unlikely you’ll ever read this, I’m writing it anyway. Who the fuck am I kidding. Honestly? Frankly? The “You†to whom I’m writing only lives in my heart and mind. The “You†you are today is years and miles away from the man who upended my life, careened me into…
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HNT ~ Sleeping In.
I love sleeping. Really. Falling asleep is one of my favorite sensations ever. It can only really be surpassed by the sensation of falling asleep curled up against someone and feeling warm and comforted and comfortably close. Waking up to a patch of sunlight with no particular place to go with still-smouldering memories of thenight…
Read MoreFormspring Q & A: Avoiding emotional intimacy.
This question on Formspring is interesting to me, but there is no room for discussion there. I’m posting it here, first to see if I can get some bounceback from other folks who struggle with intimacy and emotional availability and secondly because I’m in “Don’t. Get. Attached!” mode with someone with whom I recently hooked up.…
Read More69Stories: Re-Loaded!
YES! I microwaved and updated my shit for a new streamlined version of the original smash hit 4-peater, 69Stories: One Pervert’s Tale! Some of your fave old school stories, some new even stickier stories, a few years of sobriety and the chance to intimately probe my brain are what’s new! Read all about it in the official…
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