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Those who can’t score…
…..teach! Nah, it isn’t all that :-) I am apprehensive. I really like teaching. I get such overwhelming, (sometimes embarrassing) positive feedback, I shouldn’t have anything to worry about. The Fringe class is one I have previously conducted, it is only an hour, and I sure as hell can relay at least 3 solid take-away…
Read MorePanic In The Dungeon.
I can only imagine the meleé that an Anarchist play party would provoke. WHO would bring the CHEESE CUBES?! First Meeting of Anarchist BDSM group Thursday September 25 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM Niebyl-Proctor Marxist Library in the Red and Black Reading Room (upstairs) 6501 Telegraph in Oakland Not wheelchair-accessible; gender-neutral bathrooms are available. Contact…
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Scene digestion, step one.
I often write “scene reports” but have not had the opportunity to as it has been a long time since I’ve played in a scene-specific context. This is like a new re-re-restart, so i am putting a new process to the test! Rather than just give the blow-by blow (Sigh. Yeah, yeah.) I am thinking…
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post-scene check-list
Bitemarks? Check. Abruptly denuded pubic area? Check. Serious welts on the butt from “6 Of The Best”? Check. Goofed out bliss? Fuck yeah…!
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“I am already tempted to safe-word…”
This is always my thought when I am not involved in a relationship. and time goes by, and I have a play-date. Which I have tonight. The vagaries of physical tolerances comes to the fore and I wonder if, perhaps, the years of regular, hard play were an illusion. Perhaps I was fooling myself into…
Read More…Folsom Weekend Looms…
…and I am pretty stoked to have been invited to present a class at the Folsom Fringe Event. This is the…what…fourth? Fifth? time I’ve taught a class there. There are many cool folks teaching lots of cool classes. I am gonna hold forth on the not-at-all-controversial “race play” class. Yeah, I rule. Working, as I…
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SSC
Safe, sane and consensual (SSC) is one of several phrases used by a large section of the BDSM and sexual bondage communities to describe themselves and their philosophies who regard SSC to be a watchword for safety. The principles are that BDSM activities should be: safe: attempts should be made to identify and prevent risks…
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Ain’t no fucking saints up in here.
I stay away from online drama. I have been doing the “online thing” for a while now. Not as long as some, but longer than others. I still become honestly puzzled by people who assume that a common sexual bent will somehow filter out jerks, losers, douchebags, whiners, predators, evil beings, and just plain old…
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No, you cannot be my “Dominate”!!!
[rant] HEY! YOU! YOU WITH THE PROFILE THAT IDENTIFIES YOU AS A “DOMINATE” MASTER!! For the LOVE of GOD!!! Or GODS!! OR Stephen MOTHERFUCKING HAWKING!!! *deep breath* Once Again!! Main Entry: dom·i·nant Pronunciation: \-n?nt\ Function: adjective Etymology: Middle French or Latin; Middle French, from Latin dominant-, dominans, present participle of dominari Date: circa 1532 1…
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