ECLIPSE Women & TransFolk Play party!
Friday, March 5 2010
8:00PM – 1:00AM
Hosted by Ms. Cat & Ajax
Friday, March 5th 8pm-1am at the SF Citadel
Admission: $25
ECLIPSE IS BACK! If you haven’t been to an Eclipse party – what are you waiting for? Eclipse is a powerful gathering of Women and Trans perverts…all eager to indulge. The intoxicating energy at Eclipse has become known for its intensity and there’s always a surprise to keep our guests on their toes….er knees? In our 3rd year, we’re hotter than ever with fresh music, more presenters, and new themes to help inspire your fantasies! If your in the women’s’ community or ever wanted to get connected, Eclipse if the place to be with our interactive entertainment. (more…)
Yep! Tune in tonight between 9:00 PM and 10:00 PM PST for my appearance on
Tune In TONIGHT! December 11th, 2009!
We’ll be talking about cool fun stuff, like kink, being a Titleholder, performing, perversion, boobs, whatever…so you certainly should tune in! You can click through to the link above, or use an actual radio (gasp!) and tune to 107.3 FM!
I love the Folsom Street Fair. I love that there is a day in the year that hundreds of thousands of freaks and gawkers run around being freaky. I love that we are given this leeway, and I love that our local government supports the Leather Community the way that it does.
I am not so sure that I am entirely positive on this recent development.
Every year there are a handful of complaints about the sexual antics at the fair. This is pretty normal. Folsom pushes boundaries, and this is something to be expected. It usually is addressed in a low-key manner, and is forgotten within a few weeks.
Today, I saw an editorial in the SF Weekly, decrying a proposal to set up “public sex tents” at Folsom. This sounded a little extreme, and I thought it was probably some sort of scare-tactic to ruffle the feathers of those who are already not fans of Folsom, and to build momentum in the increasing conservatism in San Francisco.
“Public sex tents? Now there’s an idea that should have been shot down the second it was announced from the mouth of a member of the “leather community” in response to complaints about public sex at Folsom Street Fair and its smaller sibling fair, Up Your Alley.
Instead, it appears that at least one of our local leaders (Supervisor Bevan Dufty) has agreed to take the matter “under advisement.” Since our local leaders are having trouble speaking the obvious, we will: Public sex is not appropriate at Folsom Street Fair or anywhere else. Even in San Francisco.” (more…)
Thanks to my AMAZING friends, I have a FANTASTIC array of goods, services and delights for the lucky winner(s) of the basket I am offering in my run for Ms. SF Leather 2009!
Seriously, this is a tribute to the Leather Community and how people will pull together for a common cause. Further, it is a testament to how fortunate we are to live in a world where people of ALL walks of life believe in our vision of spiritual and sexual freedom!
Check out my SPONSOR PAGE for info on everyone listed below. These people and companies are on the cutting edge, folks. They believe in freedom, and I believe in them.
I am humbled to add their gifts to the fund to raise money for LYRIC and the Transgender Law Center!
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Busy and bumbling, that is:-)
I am getting swamped by rehearsals for an amazing show I’m in, and you should come see it. Hell, I got peeps coming from bloody Wisconsin and Florida to see it! “Drip” is gonna be OUTSTANDING.
I am in the home stretch for the Ms. SF Leather Contest! (more…)
Got some gigs booked for NYC, people! I am deeply delighted honored and straight up wiggly at the prospect of going Home and being able to perv out with new and old friends.
Here is the line-up so far…and if you know of a venue or organization whom I ought to contact and squeeze in to this trip, give me a holler!
I’ll be presenting for the FANTASTIC Lesbian Sex Mafia on March19th. As of now, I’m leaning towards the class on “Playing with Taboos” HOWEVER I am open to suggestions! (more…)
It is time again for the SM Odyssey Folsom Fringe!
I’ve been attending SM Odyssey events since they started ‘em up back in 1998 with the Kinky Prom. Man that brings back some memories…
Now I’m a jaded ole perv and am rolling on down to San Jose with a few hundred pervs from far and wide to celebrate the community, the kink, and to learn and play and generally get our Leather on.
I’m breaking out a new class… “BOUNDARY SMACKDOWN” that is focused on overcoming internal and external inhibitors to satisfaction in your personal kinkscape. I’m curious to see how it is received!
I am also super thrilled that a long-time friend, Evil Mommy Tina, will be doing some picture taking of me while I’m there! I am usually insanely self-conscious about photography so it helps to have someone I absolutely love and trust to do the honors…
And the of course there’s Sunday, the big day. My costume pieces almost didn’t make it, and I still have a few errands to run to be ready to do my thing on Folsom Sunday! It is the first year I’m using a masked costume, so I am curious to see how that experience is…
Follow along on Twitter, or just keep an eye on the old blog for updates!
NO gain, NO yummy bruises either...
I started noticing it when I was in the late-stages of my first kink relationship. The late stage where the sex and kink die-off, you aren’t playing as often, maybe the thrill is gone or you’re in line with 2-5 other women waiting to be slotted in at the dominant’s convenience.
And then it began.
I’d stub my toe three times in one day. Bang my arm into the wall of my cubicle. Smack my head on an open cabinet, and stumble back, wincing from the sudden pain that woke me out of whatever reverie I’d been in.
It didn’t take me too long to make an interesting connection.
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The stars aligned, the event for which I was supposed to travel to Denver was canceled, I do not have rehearsal for “Drip” that evening, and miraculously I’m insane enough to do it.
*deep Breath*
I am in the running for Ms. SF Leather 2009!
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