I am superfucking picky about reviewing shit, endorsing stuff, reviewing toys, permitting advertising on my site…all that shit. Why? because I’m lazy. Yep. I often do not wanna do the work it takes to vet people, places and things for inclusion on my site.
(That’l likely change soon, because I need to monetize this fucker. Bandwidth don’t pay for itself!)
However, in this case, I’m-a straight up plug & push a retreat that is being created by a woman I love and respect very much.
When I say I don’t look up to many people in the Leather Lifestyle, people assume it is because I’m a snobby asshole. OK point. But the MAIN reason is that my heart & soul can REALLY only “look up” to people who resonate with me on a number of levels . One of the basic levels is a woman who identifies as powerful, who is submissive, and identifies as a slave and is also Black.
So, you can see why the field is fucking narrow.