Mar 252010

The morning after...welts courtesy Lady Hilary & The Marine.

A couple of weeks ago my full-time employment-centric lifestyle evaporated, much more quickly that I thought would be the case in my life. That same week I received word that my roomie, who is awesome, was moving out as she and her girlfriend had found a place.

All this as I was returning from a trip back east to DC for a conference and was bracing for the long trip to Chicago and NY.

Additionally I had an impossibly full weekend with the Mr. SF Leather contest, and I was slated to do a demo for a dungeon party and was having the damnedest time finding a demo top I could trust to do the type of play you need to do for a demo, and with whom I had some connection.

I happened to luck out. Big time.

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Mar 032010

ECLIPSE Women & TransFolk Play party!
Friday, March 5 2010
8:00PM – 1:00AM
Hosted by Ms. Cat & Ajax
Friday, March 5th 8pm-1am at the SF Citadel
Admission: $25

ECLIPSE IS BACK! If you haven’t been to an Eclipse party – what are you waiting for? Eclipse is a powerful gathering of Women and Trans perverts…all eager to indulge. The intoxicating energy at Eclipse has become known for its intensity and there’s always a surprise to keep our guests on their toes….er knees? In our 3rd year, we’re hotter than ever with fresh music, more presenters, and new themes to help inspire your fantasies! If your in the women’s’ community or ever wanted to get connected, Eclipse if the place to be with our interactive entertainment. Continue reading »

Dec 182009

Carnal Carnival ~ TONIGHT!
Friday, December 18, 2009
Program starts at 7:30pm

Remember those hot summer nights at the county fair, feeling the thrill of the rides and trying your hand at throwing baseballs at milk jugs? THAT’S NOT THIS. Instead, we have a hot winter night of kink, fun, music, and debauchery! Throw a whip, feel a singletail, join in the vibrator races. It’s all part of the Exiles Carnal Carnival! Your regular program admission gets you Exiles Bucks to use at the carnival booths – and you can buy more Bucks for more fun too!

We’ll have raffles for kinky goods and this year, you get to CHOOSE which raffle prize you want to try for. You’ll get a raffle ticket when you come in and another for every child’s toy you donate to MAMA’S TOY DRIVE – and you can buy more raffle tickets for more chances at the goodies!

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Oct 232009

Mollena Williams Named Ms. SF Leather 2009

By Sister Dana Van Iquity
Published: October 22, 2009
Mollena Williams is the happy winner of the first Ms. San Francisco Leather in nine years. Photo by Rich Stadmiller.

Coming Back After 10 Years, the Contest Was a Huge Success

After a 10 year absence, the Ms. San Francisco Leather contest returned with a 21st Century energy on Saturday night, Oct. 17, at the Blue Macaw Bistro and Night Club.  As the contest advertising said, “The Bitch is Back!”  Five contestants vied for the honor of representing San Francisco’s Leather community.  Angel, a member of Dykes on Bikes and self-described as a “Switch Leather Dyke”; Miss Max, a BDSM educator, who describes herself as a “gender queer girl;” Tracy Wolf, a polyamorous switch who is active in The Exiles and Threshold (an LA based group); Mizz Sammy, a “Domme momme” who is studying Healthcare Information Services; and Mollena Williams, a writer, actress, BDSM educator, and “Executive Pervert” put on a show that left the crowd saying “great show! We want more!”  Jody, the contest producer explained that this is a different sort of contest and that while a titleholder would be chosen at the end of the evening, all of the contestants were now a part of the Ms. San Francisco Leather family.

Each contestant presented a fantasy skit, answered a pop question and gave a short speech in front of an audience of close to 200.  Before the show, a five judge panel  – consisting of esteemed members of the leather community  –  interviewed each contestant.  The Head Judge was “Mama” Sandy Reinhardt, the matriarch of Mama’s Family, an organization that raises approximately $2 million each year for non-profit organizations such as the AIDS emergency fund and the Breast Cancer emergency fund.  She was joined by Lamalani, International Ms. Leather 2009; Brandon Clark, Mr. San Francisco Leather 2009; Daddy Sal, the co-producer of Leather Traditions; and Pam Meyer, Ms. San Francisco 1999 and International Ms. Leather 1999.

The contest featured MC extraodinaire Queen Cougar, Ms. San Francisco Leather 1993, who began the show singing the National Anthem as the Golden Gate Guards presented the colors.  Cougar kept the evening lively with her wit and humor.  The contest was dedicated to Mr. Marcus Hernandez, who was always a great friend of leatherwomen.  To commemorate the return of the Ms. San Francisco Leather contest, Senator Mark Leno and Assemblyman Tom Ammiano each stopped by and presented proclamations, ribbing the reigning Ms. San Francisco Leather, Pam Meyer (1999) for her 10 year stint as Ms. SF Leather.

In the culmination of the evening, Pam Meyer stepped down after 10 years, getting a laugh out of the audience as she said, “when they said ‘the Bitch is Back,’ they meant me.”   Mollena Williams “Mo” was named Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009 with Tracy Wolf as the First Runner Up.  Miss Max was voted as the Leather Heart recipient by her fellow contestants.  The Leather Heart award is given to the contestant who most exemplifies the heart in the leather flag.

Originally from New York, Mo has been active in the BDSM community since 1996.  She is a founding member of the Crowded Fire Theater Company and speaks at leather events across the U.S. on many kinkcentric topics.  Over the next year, Mo will be at every major leather event in the Bay Area and will produce several fundraising events to benefit Bay Area non-profits organizations.   Mo plans to travel extensively and, in March 2010, will be competing for the title of International Ms. Leather here in San Francisco.

While the final numbers are not yet in, the contest raised over $1,000 each for its  beneficiaries, LYRIC (Lavender Youth Recreation and Information Center) and TLC (the Transgender Law Center).

Oct 182009

Awed, Humbled, Thrilled, Amazed, Supported.

At Your Service.
At Your Service.

My first 24 hours under the title are a blur. Today’s brunch was a great chance to catch up with some of my fellow Ms. SF Leather 2009 contestants, Angel, Mizz Sammy, and my Sergeant at arms, Tracy Wolf, Second Runner Up!  Much respect to Miss Max, who was missed, and who won the Leather Heart Award, as selected by the Ms. SF Leather Class of 2009! Continue reading »

Oct 162009

Thanks to my AMAZING friends, I have a FANTASTIC array of goods, services and delights for the lucky winner(s) of the basket I am offering in my run for Ms. SF Leather 2009!

Seriously, this is a tribute to the Leather Community and how people will pull together for a common cause. Further, it is a testament to how fortunate we are to live in a world where people of ALL walks of life believe in our vision of spiritual and sexual freedom!

Check out my SPONSOR PAGE for info on everyone listed below. These people and companies are on the cutting edge, folks. They believe in freedom, and I believe in them.

I am humbled to add their gifts to the fund to raise money for  LYRIC and the Transgender Law Center!

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Oct 152009
Guys, seriously. Get tix in advance and pop the extra ducats for a guaranteed seat. Your feet will thank you!


Ms. S.F. Leather is holding its first title contest since 1999!!

Contest Weekend Events

Friday, Oct. 16 – Ms. SF Leather Meet & Greet – Emceed by the fabulous Sister Sarah Femme! Meet the contestants and judges! Try to figure out who the MYSTERY JUDGE might be! CA Community Bootblack, Blast will be there to get your leathers in top shape before the contest! Also, there will be a chance for you to submit questions that could be used on stage during the “pop question” portion of the contest! at the SF Eagle, 398 12th St., SF, 8:30pm-10:30pm, Cost: FREE

Saturday, Oct. 17 – Ms. San Francisco Leather Contest – Emceed by the incomparable Queen Cougar, Ms. S.F. Leather ‘93! Enjoy watching our 5 fabulous contestants be put through their paces! The contest evening features speech, pop question, and – everybody’s favorite – Fantasies! Silent Auction! CA Community Bootblack, Blast, available when the doors open and during intermission! Net proceeds will be donated to LYRIC and the Transgender Law Center!

Space is wheelchair accessible, and we will have sign-language interpreters.

Location: The Blue Macaw, 2565 Mission St., SF. Doors open at 5:30pm

Cost: General Admission: $10 in advance or $15 at the door. Please note: seating is limited, and a General Admission ticket does not guarantee a seat. Available seating is first-come, first-served*.

*If you require a seat for health reasons, please alert an usher upon arrival.

Also available: Preferred Seating for $20 in advance or $25 at the door. (if not sold out) Advanced tickets may be purchased online from

The Blue Macaw is a great, spacious venue with food and full bar available.

Getting There: Near the 24th St/Mission BART stop. Several muni lines run nearby, including the #14 Mission. There is also a nearby parking garage, on 21st St. between Valencia and Mission.

After-contest opportunities

Open play party at the Citadel – membership requirement waived for contest attendees!

Drop by Wicked Grounds to re-hash your favorite moments. Sunday: Brunch at Dolores Park Cafe, 11:00.