Community. Service.

This weekend I was able to connect with my BDSM Community peeps on both Saturday and Sunday. And The Lord (Ganesha, of course) said it was good. The Iron Dom contest was a delight! The crowd was enthusiastic the participants amazingly creative and the willing victims game, and sassy, and I feel confident in saying…

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It is time for the Best of the Bay series! Each year the San Francisco Bay Guardian prints a “Best of the Bay” issue and a few years back, my solo show “69Stories, one Pervert’s tale” was running and I was voted “Best Solo Performer” that year. It was pretty neat! There are a lot…

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from COLORLINES MAGAZINE: “Playing with Race” by Daisy Hernández

Mollena Williams is gregarious, the kind of woman who makes a point of saying, “How are you today?” to the Walgreens cashier. She has a short afro and laughs easily. She works as an administrative assistant and at night, she pens her theater performances. She is also a masochist. Williams is part of San Francisco’s…

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WTF Wednesday: Tool Time + Play Time = FAIL.

I do not want to “Blame The Victim” in the case of a grim injury. But when the victim voluntarily let someone put an electric saw ANYWHERE NEAR their girl bits, my sympathy evaporates like rubbing alcohol poured on a sidewalk in Dubai in August. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again:  …

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iPerv.

I don’t have an iPhone. I’m not connected with this company and I’m not making any money off of this.   But I find it terribly delightful that iPhone has a kinky app.   From their site:    Need to keep your minions in line? Have an unruly co-worker that you’ve always wanted to smack…

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What kink is NOT. (Or: Yes, Rhianna getting beaten IS our business.)

I don’t do all that much in the celebrity gossip arena save for occasionally snarking. But a recent high-profile abuse case is straddling several areas of thought in my brains today. I know you may know this, but let me reiterate: simply because someone is masochistic, one cannot assume that they would also tolerate abuse.…

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Jane’s Guide!! Ooo ooo, yay!!

  The Perverted Negress You know you’re in for a witty treat of a writer when there is a line that involves the term “Jacks-off Pollock.” It only gets better from there. Mollena is the Perverted Negress, and her blog is a delightful mix of news, the occasional review of a sex toy/sexuality item, pictures…

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The Pleasurists #7

Seven by Jean Paul Four Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #6? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #8? Submit it here before Sunday December 14th at 11:59pm…

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Fuck Yeah It’s Friday!

The good folks at XCRITIC have a vision. That vision is awesome pr0n for your wanking enjoyment with reviews by People Who Love The Porn. Some of those people are industry insiders. One of of those people is…ME! I am thrilled to announce that I am the newest contributor to the XCritic Review Team. *confetti*…

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