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7 Random Tips for D-Types
Yeah so I’m making some broad sweeping off-the-cuff generalizations about some recommendations I have for dominant types. Take it or leave it. But if you leave it? You suck. So there. Nyah. Feel free to add your own off-the-cuff recommendations in the comments! Insist on having us tell you what is really going…
Read Moregod & Monster.
She’s big tonight. Big and persistent and not backing down and I have far, far too much on my plate and mind and heart to coddle the demon. She trots back and forth in agitation. Barking an incessant litany of failures…the shit I ain’t done, ain’t never gonna do, the projects over which I’ve been…
Read MoreAbout my submission, I can say this:
…I don’t always get it. Today I came face-to-face face-first with my Dark, dragged by the scruff of my neck, grasped tightly in the teeth of my own personal demon, who was tired of my whining. Well, Bubbles calls it whining. I’ll call it feeling a bit depressed. Or as I like to put it,…
Read MoreEpiphany. [Courtesy the Sunday Times]
After being shoved into a Very, Very. Bad. Place emotionally following a conversation sparked by the death of Amy Winehouse, I’ve been floundering on some core issues. I had to wince to see so many people’s callous opinions, and to hear people opine that addicts just made “bad choices: ” that we chose to let ourselves…
Read More“Piss” ~ a short film.
There are all sorts of approaches to kinky sexytime, and negotiating them can be friggin’ awkward, even for those of us who do this shit professionally. I am delighted to share this funny short film. Not only is it sweet, sensitive, clever and hilarious, it would be a great way to broach the topic of kinky sex to someone…
Read MoreNothing to see here…
I’ve been here & in service & writing & working for a little over a week now. I haven’t had much in the way of time for personal writing. More to the point, I am in the midst of this crazy-ass root-level emotional liquefaction that has left me gasping a bit for…
Read MoreTo safeword.
This is. Huh. It is Rambly noodlings about a scene I did with Graydancer at the Dark Odyssey Fusion camp. You can hear his side of the story (and it is pretty frikin’ cool, to be honest) on the Ropecast. It starts at the half hour point. Showing off, connection and playing to safeword. I…
Read MoreRandom flashback. WAY back.
SO I was on FaceBook after thumbs-upping a good article with suggestions for how to come out to non-kinky folks (I personally eschew the term “vanilla” because I feel too many perverts use it as a smeary smarmy superior pejorative) about being a pervert. And I quipped that my coming-out process usually involved my saying “Um. Have you googled me? Go…
Read More“…to be brave.”
I’m writing words none of you will read. I’m phrasing an inner monologue I don’t want anyone to hear. I’m voicing fears I do not want to face and, in bad moments? Resent having to share at all. I’m editing a document that is supposed to facilitate one of the more critical…
Read MoreTiny Dangerous Fun!
Late Notice but if you’re in The City (and yes, there can be only one) tomorrow night, wander on over to Brooklyn and join me as I talk about perverted shit. I know, but really, you can’t get enough. Admit it. Tiny Dangerous Fun happens at the Sycamore Bar in Brooklyn. Shaddup Manhattanites and…
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