e[lust] #22

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Because I forget sometimes? Thank you.

I am moved today to give thanks. Thank you to the people who support me, who have the bravery to be my friends. Thank you to the people who listen to me, and thank you to the people who offer their homes, their support, and their help. Thank you to the people who, by their…

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Sometimes, it is the simple things.

Being back in the US is pretty dang lovely, too. My cell phone works here and I can mainline news, info and bullshit with ease. 6+ weeks is a long damned time. Hitting the ground in Washington DC, having a good old fashioned taco plate with Spanish rice that reminds you of the rice your…

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Making me cry.

No one will be surprised to read I’m a pretty emotionally dynamic person. Always have been. Things impact my insides, sometimes in ways that taste strange even to me. Emotions, I know, are only as crucial as one makes them. It can be tough for me on some days to let go of emotions that…

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Haters.

Every once in a while I get nicked by a hater or two. Or five. I have done the work to remind me it has nothing to do with me and everything to do with them. But sometimes I’m surprised at where the support for the haterism comes from, and I have to sit back for a…

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“Dear TheDominantGuy…” an open letter.

Hey, TheDominantGuy. Yeah this is kinda cheezy, the open letter thing but you know I’m cheezy like that, and this is kinda important to share, I think. I had an epiphany today. Yes another, but it is OK. I have been Epiphany Free for a few weeks now, and I’m overdue. I was thinking about…

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Reality Chex: choke down a bowl, won’t you?

Reality Chex: the worlds coldest cereal. Now with enough fiber to stop up a blue whale!   Yep, I hate ’em. Well, I hate them and I need them. Those moments when you come off of the people mover of floaty, high wonderful (e)motion and sail, face first, into the brick wall of “reality.” I…

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Bedbugs suck.

I was pillaged in Amsterdam at a hostel. Winter of 2005. I looked like this from the neck down. And while you can buy opium, mushrooms and ganja in Amsterdam, you know what you CANNOT buy? Yep. Antihistamines.

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My fat black ass.

Despite having no lack of photos of myself in compromising positions, every time I do a fetish shoot, or one where I’m gonna have my big old butt in the wind, I become a bit apprehensive. Yeah yeah fat is flabulous etc. But like anyone, I can be a little self-conscious when it comes to…

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A “Thank you!” and a “Bugger off!”

Dear concerned friends:   Every once in a while, I will share my life, my journey, my thoughts and fears and shit with someone on a personal level who has known me for some time. Maybe for years in the Leather / BDSM community. Perhaps from outside of the community. Or a friend I’ve known…

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