“Not Yo’ Mama’s Tea Party” is coming…SAVE THE DATE!

February 4, 2010

An outrageous tea party is hitting the ground on SUNDAY February 21st! Tea! Tea demos! Bondage! Bondage Demos! Silent auction! Loud-Ass auction! Celebrity Guests! RUBBER CHICKEN SPANKINGS! Divas and Deviants all mixing it up to help raise funds for LYRIC, The Transgender Law Center Crowded Fire Theater Company and the Ms. SF Leather Travel Fund!…

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Go away!

January 29, 2010

Yeah, welcome to my newest post…where I encourage you to LEAVE my blog and go read someone else’s. While a Top and a bottom in BDSM experience different stress triggers and excitements, both produce body responses that brain must process and recover from. Whether it is a physical scene or a psychological one, the top…

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International Ms. Leather! Yea, I need HELP!!

January 19, 2010 |

As many of you know, upon my being awarded the Title Ms. San Francisco Leather, it became part of my Titleholder responsibility to represent San Francisco in the International Ms. Leather Competition. Since 2009 was the first Ms. San Francisco Leather contest in a decade, this is a very exciting and somewhat daunting run I…

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Bad Submissive.

January 14, 2010 |

Thick skin yet sensitive. Ably shielded yet vulnerable. How the fuck are we supposed to function as people, and as submissive people, yet remain vulnerable enough to let others see who we can be when we are in that headspace? These days, I have brief, rare, small glimpses into being submissive. But the rough lumpish…

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Help for Haiti

January 13, 2010 |

We’re all busy. And lots of us aren’t wealthy. But if you are reading this, you have the time to send a text message and ten bucks. You can text “HAITI” to 90999 to donate $10 to Red Cross relief efforts in Haiti. Help via UNICEF Help via Yéle Hati, Wyclef Jean’s organization.

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How to Guarantee I Won’t Date You.

December 30, 2009 |

I received this solicitation on a BDSM dating site. And I quote…. Master[REDACTED] Age: 37 Gender: Man Location: New Hampshire, United States Message: Hi babe :) I like what you have to say in your profile sugar :) LOL I’m a Dom looking for a slave whore to do what ever I want her to…

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HNT ~ The Magic in the Music

December 16, 2009 |

Happy HNT! I experimented a while back with a more kinetic HNT, and I may be the first person freakish enough to have gone there. I challenged myself to do something fun this week, and so I went for another motion-sensitive clip. Then I got zesty and decided I was gonna put some music to…

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HNT: The World’s Awesomest Sweater.

December 10, 2009 |

I love this sweater. It is a colour I love, it is warm, and, most importantly, it has the sexiest hood and neckline I have ever seen. It is all draped and forms this sexy cowl and stuff. It is rare for me to feel sexy in general, so when I can have a SWEATER…

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FetLife Giveaway!

December 7, 2009 |

Hey Fetlifers or wannabe FetLifers! Get your asses over there and enter the FetLife Holiday Giveaway! There is a shitload of shit from which you can choose. But you’d better not choose the shit I want because I’ll track you down and gank it. SO, stay away from that Fucking Machine, Bondage Corset and Heart…

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