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HNT: Dressed and still Nekkid.
I performed tonight at an AMAZING event called “Bawdy Storytelling” and you can see the information about it in my post from a couple of days ago. Dixie DeLaTour hosts and curates it and I know how much work that can be. And I major fucking HUGE round of applause because she is flawless. She…
Read MoreWTF Wednesday! Scene Music: WTF do you Fuck to?
Quickie post here as I’m behind on a ^&%^%$## deadline! I’ve had several folks on Twitter today asking about scene music. So take a sec and throw down in the comments with your fave BDSM / Kink / Sex tunes. Blip links if you have the time, and DJ lists and links if you have…
Read MoreAdult Baby Fetish: UR doin’ it…wrong?
There are plenty of fetishes that evince puzzled looks or giggles from people, and I know that some of mine fall into that category. While the average person can grasp the general concept of “Power Exchange” a more finely-tuned fetish such as racially-motivated play or reverse-anthropomorphic play can be more difficult for folks to grasp.…
Read MoreHelp FAQ up my site!
“Why do you do all that…kinky stuff…?” I get this a LOT. Not just from non-kink-identified people, but also from hardcore perverts. As one of the few people out about edgier kinks, I sure as hell have been in the middle of heated debates about the nuances of controversial role-play. But the same question is…
Read MoreHappy (Healthy Hooters) Half-Nekkid Thursday!
When I first started to grow boobs I was dismayed. My areola, being HUGE from the get-go lead me to believe I was doomed to have tits that were ALL. AREOLA. I mostly have grown into them but I still think it looks kind of odd. Whatever. As my 40th birthday snuck up to smash…
Read MoreRACK
RACK’s tenets are best described by a deconstruction of the acronym. Risk-Aware: Both or all partners are well-informed of the risks involved in the proposed activity. Consensual: In light of those risks, both or all partners have, of sound mind, offered preliminary consent to engage in said activity. Kink: Said activity can be classified as…
Read MoreShy Freaks.
Who we are is never, ever a one-dimensional painting. It is a sculpture, kinetic, a maze, a faceted crystal, a subterranean cavern, an oceanic abyss, a windswept plateau, all of these things. Having a dawning realization that you might resonate with something about BDSM, whether it not it is something as simple as fascination with…
Read MoreI’m Faaaaaamous!!
OMG CHECK OUT Sharon Glassman’s column in The Huffington Post, everybody! What is Work? Kinky Sex and a 401K Tweet it! Digg it! Pass it around, blow it up! I am so effing proud…thank you Sharon!
Read MoreCommunity. Service.
This weekend I was able to connect with my BDSM Community peeps on both Saturday and Sunday. And The Lord (Ganesha, of course) said it was good. The Iron Dom contest was a delight! The crowd was enthusiastic the participants amazingly creative and the willing victims game, and sassy, and I feel confident in saying…
Read MorePerversion has a New Look!
Welcome back! Poke around the Site! Gaze in awestruck slack-jawed amazement at my Twitter Rollup! Scroll to the bottom for featured pages! Buy something from my Store where I pick cool shit! Yay! Thanks to Keith for the codewrangling. Fuck…of course NOW my hyperlinks aren’t showing up as gray any more…ah, newness!
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