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Sunday, April 22, 2012.
“You will be my date at a private party, and sleeping over that night.” While I had been previously asked about my availability for Friday evening, his follow-up text message caught me a bit by surprise. Usually, when making plans, Â people ask me what I’d like to do, or offer suggestions for what we might…
Read MorePlagiarize this.
I got a notification today on several responses to a post I’d written a little while ago. You can see it here. I wasn’t surprised” sometimes people dig though to older stuff. I WAS surprised when I pulled up my @ page and saw that someone was asking me if I’d posted someone else’s work. Said she’s…
Read MoreYou know how it seems like someone is totally talking to you?
A TREMENDOUS Honor!
It is not uncommon for people to talk about how they think titles, awards and such fripperies are stupid. I’ve seen so many people write about how titles are redundant, slam the idea of people gathering to back-slap and self-congratulate with meaningless awards, even do the disingenuous thing of demurring that they are not worthy…
Read MoreSeeing Bubbles.
Those of you who know about me at all know I’m an alcoholic. I’ve been sober since March 14th, 2007 and just celebrated my 5th Soberversary. A big part of my sobriety revolved around my having a very serious series of…encounters / hallucinations / spirit journeys while I was detoxing.  And the first party involved in this excitement was a hyena…
Read MoreNew on SexIs Magazine…suckin’ it.
“ I really like oral sex. And by “really like†I mean “am the hugest fan OMFG eat me all night long, baby!†When I was a teen and first began me explorations with my first boyfriend, I was rather spoiled. It took me about a decade to realize HOW spoiled. My first boyfriend thought eating…
Read MoreHow NOT to hit on kinky POC.
I put up a video in response to a bunch of POC describing some flagrant fooliganism. I didn’t think this shit had to be said but clearly I’m just sheltered and shit. And next time some clueless wonder writes to you talking about how much they wanna own a hot piece of black ass, flame…
Read MoreTONIGHT! Midnight ~ 2AM EDT! Sex, Love & HipHop with Sinnamon Love!
This evening…or rather, early in the morning for you ast Coast peeps…I’ll be joining the amazing Sinnamon Love on her brand new show, Sex, Love & Hip-Hop! Also appearing are Lola Bastinado and Beauty Foster and it looks like one of the people who had a major impact on my coming out kinky, Dr. Gloria Brame, may…
Read MorePSA: How NOT to hit on kinky Black people.
I put up a video in response to a bunch of POC describing some flagrant fooliganism. I didn’t think this shit had to be said but clearly I’m just sheltered and shit. And next time some clueless wonder writes to you talking about how much they wanna own a hot piece of black ass, flame…
Read MoreOn “closure…”
I’m pondering a misconception I’m releasing around what it means to have “closure.” I’ve been struggling mightily with what felt like a really crippling blow to my self-esteem. I kept performing autopsies on my relationship with The Dominant Guy to try to figure out what more I could have done to make it…
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