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Rufflebutt!
 I adore The AdipositivityProject. And SubstantiaJones. And this photo. The first photo posted in this series on her amazing site can be found here…I posted it a little while back but check it out again :-) The rain that started in that other photo continued in this one. It was warm and raining and…
Read MoreFat and Happy.
Substantia Jones, photographer and curator of the Adiposivity Project pinged me a while back and we got to chatting about doing a shoot. The stars aligned and we were able to meet and take some pictures. And then the atmosphere itself aligned for a moment of effulgency heretofore unknown to me in terms of moments…
Read MoreThe FatGirl Pervert Rants.
I’m fat. (For the record: I do not use / identify with the euphemism BBW (Big Beautiful Woman). I respect those who do, it just isn’t my choice. “Large,” “Plus-Sized,” “Big” are terms I occasionally use. For me, I prefer fat.) I am, unsurprisingly, ambivalent about it. There isn’t a whole lot of acceptance around…
Read MoreWhere all the fat girls at?
I got on a bit of a riff today about there not being much variation in the BDSM and Bondage community when it comes to size and color, etc.  I know a few people who make that effort…my dear friend Mistress Heart has done a wonderful job with her Women Of Color  Photo Project. But I…
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