Leather Reign 2010…my keynote speech.
I’ve been invited to do keynotes at Leather / Kink events a handful of times, and as someone who doesn’t really believe in writing speeches, this always throws me into a blind panic. Yes, one of my own making but I personally challenge myself to life up to the challenge of what speeches are, IMO,…Read More
Accepting your submissive self.
Some anonymous person asked me the following on Formspring…and I felt more like talking to them rather than writing about it. Admitting my submissive side is one of the hardest things that’s happened to me. I don’t know what to think or do with myself anymore. I wonder if it’s a result of past sexual…Read More
No longer on speaking terms with Las Vegas.
Click through for some amusing pictures. Or don’t. Meh.Read More
Facefull of epiphany.
I’m a bit of a “woo-tard” in that my “woo woo” stuff….spiritual and emotionally friable shit…tends to be the one area of my life I really hesitate to share. So, because of my weird compulsion that shoves me towards greater and greater revelation, I tend to spill my guts in various ways. For better or…Read More
Is that a threat…?
In a chat on Twitter, Mark S and I were bantering about things that tops sometimes use as threats in order to incite fear into the hearts (and genitals) of those (un)lucky enough to find themselves at their (lack of) mercy. I thought about my own reaction to threats, and why they don’t usually work…Read More
Tillykke med fÃ¸dselsdagen, Lee!
Since I can’t wish kick assÂ educator, author, and fellow Titleholder Lee Harrington a Happy Birthday in person today, here is my audio card! Listen!Read More
The Negress Natters: On BDSM & Race Play.
Look, Ma! New Tech! Welcome to what will probably be a new regular feature on The Perverted Negress! I can talk and you can listen and I don’t have to fucking type. What’s not to LOVE?! Check out the post on race play inspired by Jaki, who sent me a message on FetLife and then…Read More